Domino has been having some spectacular insights and I can relate. He wrote of someone who’d contacted him full of anger, fear and resentment. He wrote how although it was painful, he understood how they saw it the way they did and this person was clearly a messenger to shine light on shadow he’d not yet released. I resonated with it as it reminded me of my ex publicly declaring “wanting to mend the past” and instead privately blowing up and coming up with all new fibs and accusations he never brought up during the relationship. I judged he repaid my kindness and compassion with hatefulness and deceit. Only now do I realize he was being as sincere as he could be. I attracted out of him exactly what I experienced, so vibrationally I was not a victim but a volunteer. I apologize for not being more conscious. It’s never my place to judge, ever. I am only now coming to realize the lessons learned from my messenger. Domino writes: “Thank you Facebook friends. I am feeling happier than I’ve felt in months and you really helped me. ” Continue reading
Yearly Archives: 2014
When you begin fulfilling your soul’s purpose, it will become easy to attract the people who want what you have to offer.
When you’re doing what you’re supposed to be doing, it’s easy to attract the people who want what you have to offer. You don’t have to pound the pavement or try to push your product or service down someone’s throat. They’ll recognize the value, they’ll see the talent and they’ll want some of it. If you’re doing what you love to do and not earning a living from it, there is simply another talent you’re overlooking. You’re not seeing the bigger picture. If you can do what you love to do, whether money is involved or not, the dollars follow. If you notice the dollars haven’t shown up yet and complain about how ungrateful and unsupportive people are, you are looking for the wrong people to support your vision. They are not your market. You are barking up the wrong target audience. You want the ones who want what you have to offer. The ones you want to be selling to and are not: clearly you are not a vibrational match right now. When it’s right, it’s easy. There’s no struggle. You can either find your other talent, or you can change your perception to vibrate in resonance with those who ARE grateful and DO support your vision and WANT what you have to offer. Then it’ll begin to flow. Then it will be easy.
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You destroy the chance for your future by not clearing up your past
The Creative Visualization Process.
A Dollar Script Visualization.
What I discovered when I did a music fast
I did an experiment the past 12 months. I limited my time spent listening to popular music because I wanted to come out on the other side with a deeper appreciation for it. In rearranging furniture a year ago, I stuck the stereo and cd player in the closet, then forgot about it for about a week. That spurred me on to do the exercise of a short fast from popular music. I rarely played it in the car, opting for silence instead. I don’t usually have music on. I did listen to kirtan chants and indian devotional bhajans and ragas. Continue reading
A sleeping, painting stay-cation in my perfect life
The past several months I’ve been seriously catching up on my sleep. The beauty of a sleeping disorder is when the pendulum swings, the insomnia disappears, and I sleep many times throughout a 24 hour period. Sleep changes everything! When insomnia hits, it can last for months and years, but I’m used to it so I take natural herbal sleep supplements when it does –> those links here. I’ve been having vivid dreams since I’m getting plenty of REM sleep. It’s a fascinating meditation: deciphering my own dreams throughout the day to find the personal meaning and correlation. I’m always on the lookout for the personal spiritual lesson in everything. Yes, it’s all about me. More dreams = more contemplation = more insights = more the creative juices flow. I wrote how –> my new art studio was inspiring me, so I’ve been in there playing with the acrylics. It’s easy to get lost in painting, the time flies and it’s a mental vacation getting to paint until I’m tired, then nap and get up and paint again. Continue reading
Remedy for a universal condition: Begin living the expanded life as soon as you choose to direct your own thoughts
A friend writes, “Where do I belong? Where do I fit in? Something big is about to happen and I can feel it. I’m being pulled, but to where? I tire of living….no wait. I don’t live. I’m tired of existing. I feel so indifferent towards everything as if in the end it won’t matter anyhow. We all have to die someday. Why bother doing or learning anything if we’re just going to die and the information gathered will fade away into nothingness? I don’t know. I just don’t understand and all I want is to go home so I can search the cosmos for my lost love.” Continue reading
How do you know if they love you or just love the lifestyle you provide them?
I just did a reading for a woman who “got dumped for another woman.” She actually “got dumped” after she told her boyfriend he couldn’t use her car anymore and he had to pay rent if he was going to keep living at her place. Seems it was easier for him to change girlfriends than to change lifestyles. Stop doing these things and you will attract those who love you for you and can do for themselves, I promise you. How do you know if they love you or just love the lifestyle you provide them? Stop providing them with anything but your love and attention, that’s how. If you have to bribe someone to be with you, that’s not love. Many people go to any length to have someone in their life. The one time I did for someone with the intention of giving them the respite they said they never had, I disabled them to the point that they resented me and the friendship was lost. Lesson learned! Let the caterpillar make its own way out of the cocoon or its wings won’t be strong enough to fly.
Hard as it is, get used to death. God would not stop an acorn from growing into an oak, nor a tadpole from becoming a frog
Another beautiful soul has dropped their Earth body. A friend remarked, “This is happening too often, this has to stop.” Really? It’s not going to stop, everyone drops their body, it’s part of life. Why is death deemed tragic and why would God allow it to happen? It’s not tragic, it’s just the cycle of Life, so why should God prevent any of it? We’re all going to die. We simply need to know it’s nothing to fear and that it’s not the end. What a caterpillar calls death, we call a butterfly. Would He intervene to prevent the caterpillar from becoming a butterfly? Would he keep a tadpole from becoming a frog? Would he stop an acorn from growing into an oak? Would he prevent hot water from becoming steam, or cold water from freezing? These are just natural changes and it is no different than our own transition from one state of being to another. It’s just a change. Would we keep a toddler in kindergarden or a 6th grader in elementary school? No, we let them graduate to the next phase in the process, so they can continue to learn and grow and become more of what they are meant to be. That’s all death is: going from one form to another.
Grief is work but it doesn’t have to be grim. When you check out of your physical body, your work is able to take on a new dimension. Continue reading
Rest in Peace, Judith Martinson-Savage
Judith Martinson-Savage
Another beloved friend has made their transition. I met Judith in the early 90’s through longtime galpal Cecelia Danas. Cecelia writes: “With great sadness and a heavy heart I lost my friend, business partner and teacher Judith Martinson-Savage, LMHC died this morning. Judith and I worked together for 20 years. She loved being a counselor, especially helping people with addictions. She was always there for her clients. I know she is at peace now. Archway Counseling Center will continue for I know that’s what she wanted.”
Another friend, Suzanne Daly wrote: “Jude had the spirit of a Lioness!! Her body would not allow her to be fierce as she wanted to be all the time. She was constantly being derailed by the body that would not give her a break. She can now do her work and be strong and fierce and healthy and free and when the wind dies down I think I can hear her roar in the distance. Many will miss her and many have been changed forever because of her love and service. Love you Jude!!!”
Judith’s service is Thursday 10:00 am to noon at Beach Funeral Homes, 1689 South Patrick Drive Indian Harbor Beach, 32937 phone 321-777-4640.
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Her perception upon dying
The new art studio is coming together
The inspiration is flowing! I’ve set up my painting studio in what used to be the dining room, and it’s coming together better than I planned. Don’t you love when that happens? Everything fits and, for the first time in years, my paints and sketchbooks are laid out where I can sit down and work on a moment’s notice. I always have several projects going at the same time, some related to the magazine, some related to writing and editing, and always a few personal projects, sewing and handyman stuff. Sometimes 15-30 minutes a day is all the time I can spend on something, so I am used to working in jumps and starts. Today I set up the watercolor station. I inherited my husband’s paint supplies in the 90’s. He painted in oils and watercolor. I was always an acrylic painter, so that opened new doors to me. He was a real neat freak, so his paint supplies were kept immaculate. It was good training for me to keep them clean and well cared for. As I set up the watercolor station today, I noticed I had a relatively new set of paints and a half dozen new, unopened brushes — score! I taped a few sheets of watercolor paper to pieces of cardboard and set them on the easels, ready to go. I laid out the brushes and paints, the mason jars I use for water, and several paint cloths to wipe brushes on. I’m already inspired!
Don’t complain about those you don’t vibe with, just unfriend them til you’re back in the vibe
Don’t complain when someone on Facebook actively supports a cause or a business or a person you wouldn’t support. Simply acknowledge that is where they’re vibing right now. If you don’t vibe there, and clearly you don’t if you’re making this much noise about it, simply unfollow their posts or unfriend them. Then focus on all that other cool stuff you let yourself be distracted from while you were being a pouty puss.