I got an email last week on the topic that I get the most inquiries about: Law of Attraction — why am I getting what I’m getting and how do I attract what I want instead? The answer is simple but may take some fine tuning until you really understand what you’re doing and why. Domino writes: I live in San Diego. I am trying to use the law of attraction to get men to stop approaching me for sex. I say affirmations several times a day: “I am left alone when I am walking. I am left alone when I go shopping. It’s easy to say no. My boundaries are respected. Men have clean thoughts about me.”
Andrea responded: Domino, with all due respect, these particular affirmations will not help you attract what you think you are attracting (or not.) The thing most people get wrong about law of attraction is not being clear on what they are thinking and thus attracting. With the above 5 sentences, the topic is clearly “I want to avoid being attacked.” The focus is “walking alone, men overstepping boundaries due to their unclean thoughts.” So just be aware that right now you’re a magnet for that. Continue reading