How do you practice “allowing?” You find a thought that feels good and practice it until it becomes your proclivity. There is nothing more important than that you feel good, because when you feel good, you’ve got control of your vibration. And when you’ve got control of your vibration, you are the deliberate creator of your experience.
To attract the higher guidance, ask the higher question.
(1) NOT “Should I put my father in a nursing home, or take care of him in my house?” Instead ask, “What do I need to know to decide on the best living arrangements for my father?”
(2) NOT “How might I encourage my mother-in-law to move out?” Instead “What do I need to know to get along better with my mother-in-law?”
(3) NOT “How can I improve my work situation?” Ask more specifically, “How can I improve the flow of work between Joe and me?”
(4) NOT “What is behind Joe’s drinking problem?” Instead “What role do I play in Joe’s drinking problem?”
(5) NOT “Why am I the only one doing all the work?” Instead “How can I foster a spirit of cooperation concerning the work?”
(6) NOT “How can I make people listen when I’m talking?” Ask “What is going on when I try to communicate, but feel others aren’t listening?”
(7) NOT “Help me understand why I always blow opportunities?” Instead ask “Help me find a way to overcome my issues and have a happy, productive and loving life.”
What if tomorrow was the most fun, exciting day ever? What if some unexpected something happened and you met some unexpected someone that changed the entire course of your life? How fun might that be? Keep your eye open for it. Expect to be delighted. Sleep on that thought. What if the best possible thing happened tomorrow? What if?
Here’s a fun way to exercise your creative visualization. Found money is one way the Universe likes to surprise us when we’re in the flow. Look at the bills in the image. See them against the white background.
1. Now see them on the floor in your closet.
2. Now see them in the pocket of a coat.
3. Now see them under the socks in your dresser.
4. Now see them in that secret side pocket in your wallet, or in the glove compartment.
5. See them on the floor of your garage.
6. See them on the side of the roadway on your morning walk.
7. See them on the floor at the grocery and on the ground at the gas station.
Keep an eye out for them. Give it a few days. Report back where it showed up. You can also do this with a lost object. Imagine seeing it in a few different settings, then begin searching then staying on lookout for it. Here are some links to the techniques I’ve written for creative visualization. Like everything else, it’s not magic, it just works if you work it.
RELATED: The Creative Visualization Process (and links)
Blocking someone is like living with blinders on. Don’t let them send you into hiding. Don’t give them the power to steal your joy.
This week several Facebook friends unknowingly friended a hacker. When I saw the mutual friends, I sent each a note to unfriend and report them as spam and change their password. Then, yesterday at a friend’s computer we checked to see if she’d friended the hacker. She and Dannia had. When I got home, I went to send Dannia a message letting her know, and I saw that she had blocked me. This same friend years ago cut off an entire group of friends, including me. But until the week before, I’d seen her comments on a mutual friend’s FB page. Apparently she didn’t like seeing my comments, so she blocked me. My first thought was, Now that’s creating your own reality! Then I felt a little honored and humbled that she gave me so much power. That wasn’t like her. Not the old her, anyway. I thought how synchronistic the Universe having me at the friend’s computer to see her name, otherwise I may never have known I was blocked. If someone triggers me to negative emotion, I know there’s something going on in me that could use some reflection. Not everyone is ready to look into a mirror, and it’s none of my business if they ever do or not. It’s just a limited way to live. Continue reading
A galpal has been commiserating with me having a knee injury since she fractured her foot dropping a box as she was moving into her new house. Since she was in a new city in a state clear across the country from “home,” she got to spent the first night there in the local emergency room. She asked me what the metaphysical meanings might be so I sent her some info. I like to give info like this in writing so friends have it to refer to as they heal, like seed thoughts for contemplation. My experience is when I have an injury or ailment, there is always some aspect of personal growth I can use. The sooner I figure out what that is, the sooner my ailment will dissipate. I wrote her: Continue reading
The reason some friends have turned against you and away from you have nothing to do with you. They’ve been removed because they can’t go where you’re being taken next. They’ve already served their purpose in your life. Let them go and keep moving. The best is yet to be and you couldn’t get there if they were still in your life.
I had two very different readings today. The first had only a couple of general questions and mostly wanted to know what I could see around him right now. The second had a list of 19 questions she emailed me ahead of the appointment and we went through them one by one. It is very true that the more focused the question, the more specific the answer comes through. Like walking into a library and saying “I’d like a book, please”, it helps to give a basic topic that you’re curious about and specific questions you want answered. Like going to the ocean, you are the one who decides whether you walk away with a thimble full or a truckload of. Ask for exactly what you want, I promise you’ll be delighted with what the Universe gives you. I like studying a client’s chart before we meet. I like to show astrological corelations to the events and circumstances in someone’s life. This is because when they see it is true for past events, they can trust it may likely be true for future events. Also to show where the beginning time was for the circumstance (no job, no relationship), and to predict an ending date for the circumstance (when they are likely to find job, relationship, etc.). When we know what to expect, it’s easier to relax into the flow (and to take steps to get out of aggravation’s way). Continue reading
How many lifetimes do we get? How many different bodies? We experience much suffering when we think we only get one life and one body. Sure, this body you’re in right now, that skin and those bones will die. You’ll go to sleep in that tired worn shell and awaken to find yourself emerging fresh into a new body, once again at the beginning of a life. What the caterpillar calls death, we call a butterfly. You go to sleep there and awaken here. We survive in consciousness after the change called death, just as we survive in consciousness after the change called sleep. Continue reading
Not many have my cell phone number. Verizon just gave me a free trial for Visual Voice Mail. I missed two calls and when I clicked “voice mail,” it showed them to me in text format. I may give clients that number now, it let me quickly see what they wanted and let me prioritize calling back. All too often, I’ve had so many calls in a day that I put off checking voice mail for a day or more. I was able to text back each the info they wanted right away. I love new technology!