How can I make him take responsibility??

Had a session last night on a Universal topic: a mom wants to figure out how to give her kids Christmas when dad is out of the picture and doesn’t pay support. I could advise her to get an attorney and I could give her tips on earning extra income but my experience is the quickest way out of a situation is to see the truth of it and understand the mechanics behind it. Then recognize what role you play in attracting that, then change your perception of your role. Once you do that, you’ll instantly find more alignment in the people, circumstances and events around you.  Mom’s situation was that her 2 kids’ dad left them years ago, left her with the kids and all the bills and no job. She finally got the court to order child support which he never paid. He works under the table for cash and spends it on “drink and drugs and nonsense.” She can’t even get him on the phone long enough to demand he take responsibility.  But she’s got the greater responsibility, the responsibility to control how she sees a situation and how she reacts to it. She’s got the ability to attract a good experience in life despite who does or doesn’t take responsibility in their own.  

Everything in our life is reflections and reactions. The solution to every dilemma is always shown to us right where we are, right here in the Now. Got a question? Want help with a problem? Get quiet, go within and ask. Then take everything you see in your physical work after that as an answer. Your task is to keep your eyes open and decipher what the signs are telling you.

Mom’s situation is that her current bf abandoned his wife and young kids years ago, left them with the bills, paid no child support and hasn’t contacted them in 10 years. Mom gave me many excuses why that was ok. But wait, what if her ex, the kids’ Dad, gave the same excuses her bf gave her? Well, she knows Dad’s stories to be BS so she wouldn’t buy it.

Love can make us blind or it can illuminate our entire world. We can’t make friends or partners take responsibility and clean up their karma but we can be aware that their karma factors in to our future. The quickest way out of a situation is to see the truth of it and understand the mechanics behind it. Then recognize what role you play in attracting that, then change your perception of your role.  Mom in the past avoided the topic with her bf since it riles him up, makes him defensive and verbally combative. It’s not worth the hassle so she gives in. Now it’s in her best interest to have the conversation just to be clear on what she’s dealing with.   

Everything in our life is reflections and reactions. How do you feel about what you see?