One scenario is one wants to seek a new partner but doesn’t know how to tell their current partner they want to split. Another is one is tired of giving a friend a ride everywhere and not getting gas money for it, but feels selfish bringing it up.  A Facebook friend said, “I really don’t understand why people can’t just tell me what they are thinking, how they are really feeling about something, what they think of me or about me, and be upfront with me than going behind my back or beating about the bush.”  I’ve experienced it this. Maybe one doesn’t want to hurt the other’s feelings by mentioning it, but it is far more hurtful to NOT say it. Maybe they don’t want to rock the boat or they think they are successfully hinting around enough that you’ll “get it.” They are not. Come right out and say in clear blunt language what the problem is and what a solution might be.

2-18-15 New Moon night, a black night sky and a chill 42 degrees overnight. Benny the Cat cried pitiously to be let out the back door last night about 9:00pm. He doesn’t like using the cat door, so he’ll stand and cry at the front or back doors until I open it. I didn’t like him being out in the cold all night, not knowing where he goes. I called outside for him several times but he didn’t come in until 3:45am. He was in eating for 5 minutes when I picked him up and his body temp was normal, so he’d been somewhere warm. He’s lucky he’s hungry!

2-19-15  Second coldest night, 40 degrees, and Benny was out again overnight and came in at 5:30am. Although it was 40 degrees outside, within five minutes his body temp was back to normal. Busted! I’ll bet he’s sleeping inside someone’s home! I’m thinking of making up a poster to hand to the neighbors so I can keep track of him.   Continue reading →

You can discover what your point of attraction is — what you expect and believe is possible for you — by looking around and taking notice of what is in your life right now. Do you need to crank up what you believe and expect is possible for you? It may be you just need to release resistance and overcome some doubt and fear. Do some creative visualization, it works when you work it.

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Remember the old question: If someone offered you a million dollars to push a button which would kill someone else, and no one would know you did it, would you do it?  Would you still do it if you knew by doing so, that would add your name to the list of those willing to play that game, which means you might be the next one to be destroyed by someone else upon their decision to choose the million dollars.  What games are you signed up for? Do any of these sound familiar?   Continue reading →

Benny the Cat and YinYang have been getting along, eating at the same station and sleeping at opposite ends of the couch.  No one has ripped anyone’s face off yet.  It took them a year to get to this point.  Ben is 2, which makes him 24 in human years.  Yinnie is 14, which makes her 120. Here’s a chart to figure cats’ ages.  When Benny first came on the scene, YinYang wanted nothing to do with him.  After several years of being one of 3-5 cats in the family, she’d gotten to be “the only cat” for a year and liked it that way. Suddenly a fumbling, frisky spirit entered her quiet world and she was zen no more.  But isn’t that always the way?  Folks drop in from out of the blue to rock the boat and take us out of familiar territory. Like the Coyote in the Animal Medicine Card, they make us question where we are and why we’re there? Sometimes the coyote is simply the silly, playful, clueless one and that’s the type Benny is.  He’ll run up on her on the driveway and want to play, and she’ll freeze him out with a glare.  It used to be a glare and a growl and a hissy fit.  Now they walk back and forth past each other with little reaction. She had to slowly get used to his energy, to his vibe.  They’re not always on the same page but at least they’re not always at each other anymore.  Small steps!

From catster.com

Your cat’s first year makes him 15.
His second birthday makes him 24.
Each year after = add 4 years.

That makes Benny the cat 24 and YinYang 120
RELATED:  Chart to calculate your cat’s age

In the Navajo and some other cultures, it is an insult to refer to someone as coyote.  Greed, thievery, gluttony, and being obsessed with roadrunners are all part of the shadow medicine of Coyote nature. This person may prove to be a teacher for others but he will do so by negative example.  Robert Oakes writes in Coyote Medicine: Coyote often talks either backwards or in riddles.  Coyote is about waking people from their slumber; shocking them if that is what is necessary to get them to open their eyes.  Coyote Medicine is about stopping people from acting out of habit.  All too often we follow tradition to the point where it loses meaning and significance.  According to Coyote nothing is sacred and all things are sacred; all teachings are inherently wrong and inherently right. Coyotes are teachers, but not in the straightforward way that most people expect.  Coyote teaches us by his folly and misadventure.  Coyote is the mirror that shows us our shadow and makes us laugh at the same time.   Continue reading →

I’m batting 1,000 today in miscommunication! First, I attracted a 50% overcharge by not clarifying the price of a job ahead of time. Then I went to edit a client’s file for a second time and found my first edits had not been saved. Then I edited an odt file in Open Office, periodically clicking the icon to save. It showed it saving as an html file. Afterward I wanted to save it as a Word doc and did. Now the html edited file is nowhere to be found.  LOL I see today I’ve got Mars, Venus, Uranus and Chiron all ganged up in my 12th house, aspecting my natal 12th house Venus, Mercury, Sun, Jupiter, Ascendant and 6th house Neptune, Moon and Saturn. Today is either going to be a party or a clusterf*ck. I’ll love it no matter what it is.  I did get a fun bit of entertainment. Being an “A” name, often I’m No. 1 in my friends’ phone list, so I get their butt dials. I just got to hear an illuminating 8 minute conversation between two friends in a car about other friends we know. Wow.

The topic of advice queries this week seems to be “let’s give the boyfriend/husband an ultimatum — it’s me or work.” Whether you’re together 5 years or 50, let each partner spend time doing what gives them the most fulfillment. Don’t pout if they don’t choose you, even on so-called holidays. That doesn’t mean they don’t care. They’re just loving their work or hobby so much all else fades into the background. Find something for yourself that does the same for you.