Yearly Archives: 2010

“I listened to your Connecting with Your Angels, Guides and Teachers cd and meditated for the first time ever”

I got the best letter the other day, the kind of letter I live for.  I’ve known a friend for a very long time and he is not into what he calls airy-fairy, new-age nonsense like meditation, visualization and affirmations. Forget about creating your own reality, he believes everything is pre-ordained.  Being brought up Baptist and raised Republican, he had a limited lens through which he viewed his world growing up. I’m not hatin’ just statin’ so you know his background.  When his business began failing, his wife left him.  When he began drinking, his health went downhill.  As a friend, I’ve given him pep talks throughout the years, but he made it clear that he did not want me to ever sneak and do any spiritual counseling or psychic readings or hypnosis on him.  Yes, that’s how his mind works, he’s been warned his whole life that people will try to sneak up and trick you.  He’s been told when someone asks him to keep an open mind, that means Satan is about to try to trick him.  He’s been told when you sit to meditate, you are inviting Satan to sit down with you I asked him what did he expect if he sat down with that thought? I told him he can choose to dial in to whatever channel he wants to hear, just as he does on the radio or the tv.  There’s not just one station in there.  Those were the words, he later told me, that were his awakening trigger. Continue reading

The weirdest things I’ve done while sleep walking

SleepwalkingTalk about a rough night. A British tourist was seriously injured when he fell off a hotel balcony on the Spanish island of Majorca while sleepwalking, falling 35 feet from a third floor window, suffering serious head and facial injuries and a broken leg, according to the UK’s Daily Telegraph newspaper.  His girlfriend tells police he regularly sleepwalks.   Original article at Tourist Seriously Injured After Sleepwalking off Hotel Balcony by Fran Golden.  As a sleepwalker, I’ve learned to place wind chimes at each doorway and door, so I have a series of chimes to gently wake me up if I try to walk out. My sleepwear is always something I wouldn’t mind showing up wearing in a neighbor’s headlights. It hasn’t happened yet. The most drastic thing I’ve done is load a shelf of books into the washing machine (glad I didn’t turn it on) and once I put my pillow in the refrigerator.

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A diagnosis is just a snapshot in time

Abraham-Hicks says “Stop looking for anything other than your mental and emotional state of being as answers to why you feel how you feel in your body. It is all Vibrational – no exception! And when you get that, then it doesn’t matter what diagnosis has been given to you—it doesn’t matter—it’s temporary.”  

If we got tested and screened to know what ailments moved in and out through our bodies every day, we would be stunned.  Most of them do not stay.  A diagnosis is just a snapshot in time.  Moments later that condition can have left us – but we think it’s still there so we continue to think it’s a problem. 

Our attention to it is what keeps it alive and animates it.  Why not instead think back and remember when every cell of your body was healthy and alive and strong.  Keep reminding yourself what that felt like.  Keep your focus and attention on how remarkable it is that the cells of your body renew themselves all the time, and that you can make sure the weaker cells are replaced by ever stronger cells, all by how you think about your body and your health.  Wow, that’s power.

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Do you really have this or that diagnosis? Keep talking about it and you will.
Remember that modern medicine is amazing, prayer works and miracles happen every day. This is how we change a thoughtform.

 

 

You need to know how to review your own work

I have friends who are writers, artists, teachers, musicians.  With rare exception, they all say “I can’t promote myself,  I can’t review my own work.” I’ve learned that’s a cop out since all it takes is a little serious consideration, and you can’t expect anyone to be more excited about your work than you are.  If you’re not excited enough about it to review yourself, you may want to work on that first.  I learned early on with Horizons Magazine that (1) it takes a lot of work to write a review and (2) I don’t have time to get good at it; and (3) printing a book review is giving free ad space, so I instead creating a monthly Suggested Reading and Listening column. Continue reading

When I feel I have no time to myself

This morning was like many other mornings.  I woke up with an idea in mind that I wanted to write about, and by the time I got the computer turned on, other thoughts came to mind.  Then I took a quick look at email to make sure nothing was urgent; it was downhill from there.  By the time I quickly answered a couple of emails, my other thoughts had flown the coop.  It was just as well, since the main computer was acting up.  This would be the perfect week for computer whiz Chuck to take a look, so I sent him an email.  I came into the living room and, as the laptop booted, I pondered how often I allow my morning to begin like this.

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Don’t do it for acknowledgment or thanks

I wrote on Facebook this week: “A friend is complaining to me that she did someone a favor and they didn’t acknowledge it or thank her for it. I told her if she did it for acknowledgment or thanks, she might wanna check her agenda. Either do it happily as a gift, or don’t do it at all. That way it won’t eat you up inside.”  One friend commented” “Would you do the favor if you didn’t like them?  This is hard to do if they are mean and spiteful too”  I replied, “I’d do the favor especially if I didn’t like them.  It’s only hard to do if you keep reminding yourself of the mean and spiteful things they do. Where your focus goes is what you keep reacting to.”  Don’t expect to be repaid a favor by the one you did the favor for. If you really knew how it worked, you’d just do favors all over the place and not care who they went to or who they came from.  To paraphrase Mother Teresa, and Kent M. Keith People can be thankless and unappreciative, help them anyway.

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I expand my space and get a new perspective

The only thingTo begin living a different life, you need to CHANGE SOMETHING.  Anything.  Go somewhere new, see different sights so you can put different thoughts in your head.  The only thing that ever needs to change is my perception.  Sometimes I need to do and see new stuff for that to happen.  Sometimes my imagination is enough.  Saturday morning I awoke with the thought that I wanted to drive out and do something different.  I had an unexpected day off! I’m always glad when a client cancels because it means I have the choice to take a spontaneous goof off day – or fill the time with appointments that have been waiting months for a cancellation.  I checked the Horizons calendar of events, then signed on to Facebook to see what everyone in town was doing.  I was looking for something to peak my interest and draw me to it.  Nothing really did.  I thought of driving down to the boardwalk in Indialantic for a surf check, but when I stepped outside, I thought I should do some watering first while it was cool.  At 8:00am, it was 80 degrees and 90% humidity, with a light breeze, not bad.  I sprayed Avon’s Skin So Soft on my legs and arms for the misquitoes and headed outside. Continue reading

I miss my sister’s manic phases – and mine

My dad and younger brother were bipolar and I’ve had several friends who were, diagnosed and undiagnosed. My good friend Domino was diagnosed 4 years ago, something I suspected long before she did.  I’ve known her for 30 years, and know her family as well.  Her mom was diagnosed years before.  Like I wrote in Is Bipolar The Root Of Genius? , I find myself missing her manic upswings, her wild ideas, her inspirations and musings.  Her hare-brained schemes.  But while they may have been simply grandiose babblings from a clinically manic state, to my ear they sounded like messages of inspiration.  They sparked ideas which often evolved into projects that earned both of us income.  When I look back, after Domino was first diagnosed as bi-polar several years ago, and think of all the ideas for projects that never materialized, I still can’t see that as being grandiose – one man’s absurd exaggeration is another mans’ actual life.  During the same time frame, I think of all the ideas for projects I have left undone.  It’s about the same, so you can’t blame it on bi-polar.  Part of the fun we have together is chatting about what might be possible to achieve between the two of us.  I don’t think of that as grandiose, I think of it as enthused pre-paving.  So when she’s quiet and mellow, we don’t do that.  I miss it in her and I miss the reaction it brings out in me. So I’ll just have to bring it out of myself and get with friends that bring it out of me.
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Crispy, Crunchy Low Fat Oven Fried Eggplant

It had been a few days since I had hummus or eggplant and I was jonesing, so last night’s dinner was oven fried eggplant wrapped in a pita with hummus, tahina sauce and mediterranean pickles.  Into the toaster oven for 10 minutes wrapped loosely in foil. Add lettuce and tomato before eating.  I had to make this blog post so I could find the recipe again.

Usually I saute the eggplant but I wanted to oven-fry it this time to give it a crispy crust.
1. Preheat a 425 degree oven
2. Cut eggplant into 1/2″ rounds
3. Dip in Eggbeaters
4. Coat with seasoned panko or Italian breadcrumbs
5. 15 minutes in a metal pan (sprayed with olive oil Pam) on a lower rack in the oven.
6. Then spray the tops with more Pam, turn and let brown another 10-15 minutes. I’m a 25 minute gal.

This was really good, it was the first time I’d done eggplant that way. It put like a fried chicken kinda crust on it, and the eggplant doesn’t get mooshy. This would also make a good sandwich on a sub roll with sauteed bell peppers and onions.  The eggplant takes on a meaty-ish texture when done like this.  If you don’t care about low fat, brush the eggplant rounds with olive oil as they bake.

I’ve also added 1 tsp each crushed coriander seeds and fennel seeds to the panko/breadcrumbs and it is delicious.  Buy the mediterranean pickles .

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