My friend Domino wrote and asked me for some input about a situation she’s going through.  We’ve spoken about the matter before, so I wrote back: “I need to ask how much creative visualization you are doing about this.  When we spoke in January, I suggested you spending five minutes 3 or 4 times a day visualizing people coming to take you to the next level, visualizing donations coming in thru Paypal and visualizing checks coming in the mail.  I also suggested you cut contact with and release to the Universe anyone who brings you down and does not contribute to the vision you hold.”  She had a copy of my Sleepytime Recharge  cd.  I wrote:  “Believe it or not, just listening to the cd a few times a week, or having it play on repeat as you sleep, will cause a shift in perception.  You’re directing your unconscious mind to begin particular processes for you, which will initiate changes in perception, which will change how you respond to external input, which will change what you attract to you.  So listen to it and entertain the notion that the words you hear may become true for you.  That will begin to trigger your own mind to find the creative solutions you want.” Continue reading →

I was speaking recently with my friend Bonnie.  Bonnie is a Facebook buddy but also a real life friend of a dozen+ years.  She’s always full of ideas for networking and promoting and she loves to help friends make the most of themselves.  Usually when Bonnie and I talk, it’s after church. The New Way POD has live music and the musicians and choir really rock.  So at the end of the service, my brain and my body are way over on the right hemisphere, dancing and singing for hours afterward.  Love drunk.  Bonnie, far more equal brained than I am, can hold a coherent conversation right afterward.  I, meanwhile, am just soaking up the vibe, and smiling is about all I can do.  And Bonnie, never superficial, is asking some remarkable questions she has been researching. Continue reading →

I was speaking recently with my friend Bonnie. Bonnie is a Facebook buddy but also a real life friend of a dozen+ years.  She’s always full of ideas for networking and promoting and she loves to help friends make the most of themselves.  Usually when Bonnie and I talk, it’s after church. The New Way POD has live music and the musicians and choir really rock.  So at the end of the service, my brain and my body are way over on the right hemisphere, dancing and singing for hours afterward.  Love drunk.  Bonnie, far more equal brained than I am, can hold a coherent conversation right afterward.  I, meanwhile, am just soaking up the vibe, and smiling is about all I can do.  And Bonnie, never superficial, is asking some remarkable questions she has been researching. Continue reading →

I notice a lot of things around me coming into balance lately. Sure, there’s the usual measure of chaos in the lives of people I speak to, but it usually doesn’t affect me. Years ago, I used to get so full of what others poured into me that I couldn’t find myself anymore, and I’d have to retreat and hibernate to regain my perspective and my calm center. I have the most to give others, when I have my own calm center. Notice that when you don’t have your own agenda, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the agendas of those around you. And those around you are probably a lot less centered and focused than you are. Scary thought, huh? So rather than bringing yourself down to their level, where they may be emotionally insecure and floundering, help raise them to yours by keeping your calm no matter what is going on. Continue reading →

Dating in the Dark. In this 2009 reality show, three men and three women are matched via a compatibility profile, chosen to live in a house and take part in various dates, which all take place in complete darkness.  Both parties interact sight unseen, judging each other by personality alone. Cameras catch all the action using night-vision technology. At the end of each episode, contestants get a chance to see each other in the flesh.  Without the other seeing their reaction.  Sweet. After that, they can decide whether to meet their partner on the balcony, signalling a yes, they want to know them better!  Or they can opt to slink out the front door and get away without talking about it (snap!) Continue reading →

 I always have several creative visualization projects going on at one time.  Some I do with friends and clients, helping them hold a vision of something they are working on changing. A vision of wellness or quick healing for the sick.  A vision of a friend finding the perfect job, a client finding the perfect partner, a family member attracting a good used car at a great price. I do creative visualization for myself for various areas also.  And I switch it up, so I can tell what specific visualization attracts what specific result.  I like especially to play with how income comes my way.  Continue reading →

Yesterday was one of my most restful Sundays ever.  Sundays are usually a flurry of activity for me, but I claimed yesterday as a day of rest and not having to do anything on anyone else’s schedule.   I ignored the pile of work on my desk and instead opted to play around putting together my new website at www.goddessgrub.com.  It had so much fun at it that it was easy to forget that it, too, was actually technically “work,” but of a different sort. Continue reading →