Stop trying to bring others with you. Stop trying to bridge the gap for those who have a different understanding than you. The less you care about how many others are up to speed with you, the more likely you will find a place of allowing. Stop trying to get people to see it the way you see it. Especially if you think it’s for their own good. Yes, you create your own reality and there’s a word we’d like to insert that will make it easier for you to understand. You create your perception of reality. You create your perspective of reality, your vibrational ability to see reality. You realize reality based upon what you’re doing vibrationally. Your perspective is uniquely yours and so is your experience.
Were you ever an eyewitness to something that someone else was also an eye witness to? And since you were an eyewitness to it, you know what you saw. You have a perspective about what happened and so does the other. And they don’t always match. Everyone gets to create their own version of reality. The life they’ve lived and the vibration they’re offering is the reason they see it as they see it. You will waste your life trying to get them to accept your version.
Two can live in the same community and have very different lives. Let them see it as they see it. You have different perceptions of reality, over which you have complete control. You cannot control the “conditions,” you are not the creator of someone else’s reality. But because you can control your perceptions, you are the creator of your own reality.
If you could give up your determination to explain yourself to get people to see it the way you see it, life would begin being sweet for you right now.