“Hi, I can’t tell by your email who your partner is, but I guarantee there is nothing going on between us other than maybe meditation or yoga talk. I’ve no idea why he’d password lock my emails but I’ve got a bf and am not in the market for another.  Sorry for any misunderstanding.   No hard feelings. ”  Love,  Andrea

I’d posted that on Facebook and Freddie Zeringue summed it up well: “This is quite common in the field of transformation unfortunately. When one partner shifts and the other doesn’t there is always a certain intimacy born in the person who shifts that the other doesn’t understand or get in any way. It is not just the fact that they don’t understand, it is the idea that they can’t understand as none of us or capable of seeing what we can’t see until something shifts us. It is unfortunate for those of us that endeavor to work in the field of transformation. Transference is very common because of this intimacy and therefore what else can an outsider assume. I have been doing this work for 25 years and it is just a fact I have come to understand and work with and around. Good luck with it.”