I worked for criminal defense attorneys for 22 years. We represented a lot of repeat offenders, some who’d done serious prison time for often violent crimes. Inmates and defendants would call for their attorney and as the paralegal, I’d be the one who took those calls. I heard all their stories and there was a definite pattern of them reaching a point where their conscience began bothering them. I was interested in the timing astrologically as it often came at the Saturn returns (ages 28-30 and 58-60) and the Uranus Opposition (ages 39-42), typical times for personal reflection. Not everyone is pleased with what surfaces in their mind when they look back on their life. The thing about people who do not-nice things: at some point their conscience is going to catch up with them and give them a vivid review of their entire life, everything they’ve done that was unkind and shady will come to mind. Come back to haunt them, as it were. When your conscience begins to bother you about past actions, that’s your Soul wanting you to wake up. You want to wake up also, because when you wake up to the deeper you, your life becomes more expansive and joyful, more meaningful and fulfilling.   Continue reading →

A friend’s elderly wife is getting forgetful. When she realizes it afterwards, she feels like a burden to him. He assured her as long as they stay in the Here and Now there is no need to remember anything other than they love each other and take it moment by moment. He is honored to hold the sacred space to be her memory for her when she needs it.

The awkward moment when you see a friend post on Facebook that she’s in a relationship with someone you know to be a sociopath who historically overlaps engagements. Some long time friends have never seen his crazy come out. Sometimes it takes awhile. Like the first time you have a disagreement, ask him to get a job or pay a bill. He is clearly not like this with everyone, and the point isn’t about one person. This is a caveat to know who you’re dealing with. In the past, I’ve kept quiet to the detriment of several situations.  Take the time to know someone. It doesn’t matter to me if there are 200 people I trust telling me what a great guy someone is around them. I can’t pretend I don’t know firsthand what one man is capable of.  Even now a year later he’s suing the fiancee he left 2 years ago. He’d fooled her twice. In July 2011, I wrote about The ladies man who presents himself as a guru and a soulmate.  In August 2013, his then- fiancee made a Facebook post she was heartbroken and devastated that he could leave her, literally bedridden, after promising he was brought into her life to help her heal from other physical problems. I know him to be a sociopath and a narcisscist a decade before her. I sent her a note of support and we had a brief private conversation.  Continue reading →

Envision a steady soaking rain on the western US areas, safely soaking the fires and alleviating the drought

They could use some rain in the western US. We can help by giving it a little thought time each day. Really, we can help with just a few minutes each day. As we gain group consciousness, science has proven we have the power to create, alter and shape things on Earth. Including the weather. Weather is not easy to influence by a single individual, but it may be influenced by a group consciousness (as evidenced by tribes doing it in their rain dances). Weather is strongly influenced by Earth resonance frequencies, the so-called Schumann frequencies. But those same frequencies are also produced in our brains, and when many people synchronize their thinking or individuals focus their thoughts in a laser-like fashion, then it is scientifically speaking not at all surprising that they can thus influence weather.   Continue reading →

I spoke last week to someone who said he needed an emergency house clearing done and he’d pay anything for it. I told him first of all, never call a psychic and say those words. I was finishing the October Horizons Magazine and told him I could speak to him in a few days and gave him several simple things to do in the meantime to start a clearing process. I knew he had a serious situation but I wasn’t sure I was the one to handle it. With some energies, I’ve learned there are others better suited for that work. In spirit contact and ghostbusting, I’ve learned that how I perceive what I observe determines how it will interact with me.  Continue reading →

I’ve gotten a new batch of collection calls from Allied Financial at 800-241-0172 for an ex. He’s not been here almost 3 years, so I give current contact info to the ones who call for him. We always discussed keeping $$ karma clean so I know he’ll be thankful for an opportunity to practice.

I had an appointment today to meet a new client for lunch. I looked forward to it because she seemed so pleasant and fun on the phone. On the way I stopped in at Walmart’s Customer Service Dept and where a very impatient couple was complaining about everything. I played on Facebook while I stood in line and ignored them. I left right after they did. I walked up as they were pulling their car out. The woman’s driving and she’s not looking so as I get near her, I motion for her to stop because she’s getting ready to hit something. She gives me a dirty look and tells me to mind my own business. I figured, “That’s cool, they’re not having a good day but I am” and I go on my merry way. I walked into Carrabba’s carrying a Horizons Magazine since my client didn’t know what I looked like. Guess who my client was. She looked kind of stunned, doe in the headlights, so I put two fingers to my forehead, closed my eyes and said, “my spidey sense tells me you’re having a bad day.” We laughed. She apologized. She’s been having a bad year, I don’t need to add to it by being grumpy back <3

Don’t be that girl.
That’s not who you want to be

Two friends are having a disagreement. One of them is fibbing, I don’t know which. I understand not liking someone but if you are going to purposely be mean to someone to keep an old grudge active, ask yourself why you feel the need to do that. Seriously.  Ask yourself deep in your soul, why you feel compelled to do that. You may not know it impacts other areas of your life and is holding you back but I guarantee you it is. Really. Just let it go once and for all. When you see that person next time, just remember that you’re not a mean girl, you don’t want to be the one who keeps this going. Quietly bless her and go on your way.

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Richard Gere

“There is a powerful exercise, quite simple , which I began to use many, many years ago. Who would I have met on the way, be it a person or an insect, the first thought that I assume with respect to this point: “I wish you happiness!” But most importantly, that this idea was indeed the very first, “I wish you happiness.” It completely changes on what is going on between you and that person. I say this from personal experience. Sometimes it’s very difficult when you meet the enemy when you find yourself face to face with an unexpected tough situation. And at this point you get an opportunity to create more space around you. You see how it pops up this negative emotion, and before it will take “up” over you , you have time to convert it. You see everything as it is: that’s evident ignorance; anger – not that other, as ignorance from my side, from their side. Convert him, let go, turn into love. “I wish you happiness.” Try it and see how much everything will change in your life. ” ~ Richard Gere

Related: Meditation links 
Meditation Twice a Day Keeps the Outside World at Bay
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Herbert Benson’s Relaxation Response is Transcendental Meditation minus the ritual
Paving neural pathways to achieve meditation and access elusive inner states
Neurotheology: How God Changes Your Brain
Regulate your body chemistry: meditation as anti-aging medicine
A list of meditation’s positive effect on some of your body’s chemicals
Meditating to the superconscious state
An 11 Minute, 11 Step Meditation to Develop Compassionate Understanding

Here are some of the dollars waiting for you to step up and take them this week. I’ve stepped it up by clearing some clutter that’s been blocking my way to the door. When I’m clutter-free, I can relax and it’s easier for me to envision more of what is possible for my life. Tackle that hall closet today, or under the sink. Clear just one space and see for yourself that more dollars will flow