I had an interesting thing happen yesterday. I was backing my car out of the driveway just as another car was driving down the street. We get very few cars and I know most of them, but this was a white sedan I’d not seen before. I didn’t think much of it. They passed and I backed out of my driveway and closed the garage door. Then I saw a little dog sitting behind the tire of a truck parked at the side of the road. I didn’t know the truck, but I immediately knew this dog belonged to the people in the white car and they were looking for him. I didn’t see which way they went but they couldn’t have gotten far. I quickly drove around a few blocks but did not see them. Then I saw a house with a silver sedan in the driveway. I knew it was theirs. My mind reasoned with me that the car I saw pass was white. Then I reasoned maybe that was a ploy to get me to this house and the white car was not otherwise involved. I didn’t want to park behind the silver car and was looking for a spot to park on the road when the white car pulled into the driveway right in front of me. Problem solved! I asked if they were looking for a dog, they were, they followed me the few blocks home and their dog was still sitting behind the truck tire. I love when that happens.
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A Realistic Personal Ad
SWM in dead-end job seeks dumpy neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation. I can’t stand movies, and the last album I bought was The Marshall Tucker Band’s Greatest Hits. I have middling intelligence but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes. I’m 32 but look 40 and feel 60. You are: a whiny, bitter shrew with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations. In time you will become coolly hostile when I don’t fulfill every unmet need you’ve ever had. Bonus points if you just finished boinking every guy in town and but now want to take it slow with me. My perfect night would include getting hammered in a sh*t-hole bar while you flirt with seedy old drunks, followed by an embarrassing screaming match. I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread but prefer a long-term, soul crushing descent into booze and pills. No friendships. I don’t need any damn friends. Age unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 30 and rehash mother issues with women over 40. Serious replies only, please.
Online dating: E-Harmony vs. Match.com — Beware of the Scammers
A Fly On The Wall Of A Dating Site Hook-Up with a Scammer
Online dating scams; hot singles are waiting for you
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I pickle myself into hot flashes and night sweats
I wrote at I’ve been making crisp, quick pickled watermelon rind that I’ve been making pickles this week, and also the past two weeks eating – almost daily – Hummus and Babaganoush with lots of fresh garlic and mediterreanean pickles on the side. I love spicy, flavorful foods, especially when they’re low fat and healthy. Even when I eat a can of Campbell’s chicken noodle soup, I add a teaspoon of apple cider vinegar and a splash of srichacha sauce. The past year I noticed I’ve had far fewer hot flashes than usual, but this week I began having them again and Friday night I had the night sweats for the first time in many months. As I looked over my food journal to remind me what I ate Friday, I saw that I’d eaten pickles all day long.
My sleep/work habits are morphing again; using self talk to change my perception
My sleep schedule is changing again and that’s always interesting. My habit for years was to be up at 4:00am for morning meditation and then go back to bed from about 6:00-9:00am, then go into the office. The past month I’ve been unable to go back to sleep, and then I crash about 6:00-7:00pm until midnight or 2:00am. That plays havoc with my reading practice, typically between 10pm and 2am. Then I stay up until about 6:00pm the next day. I’ll do what my body wants, however I’m sure having to change my perception of what to do at dawn. It seems I’m always waiting for daybreak. Continue reading
The Invisible Counselors are now in session
This website was created so I could share my experience with the Invisible Counselor’s process from Napoleon Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich. With this workbook, you will discover who your Invisible Counselors are, and you will record your sessions with them. I’ve shared transcripts of my own initial meetings and included exercises to help you hold your own. It’s fun to get together in a group and do the workbook. The exercises are designed to help you to carve those neural pathways, through the mental muscle memory in your mind and let you become practiced at it. As you have new thoughts and beliefs, you realize more and more what is possible for you, and you will attract clearer guidance and more interesting invisible counselors at your table..
AN INVITATION FOR YOU TO JOIN ME. I’ve had a lot of success and fun using this workbook and would like to invite you to share your experiences. You can email me at horizonsmagazine@gmail.com. If the images don’t show up properly for you at the site, use the Mozilla Firefox browser.
Building momentum – do it for the income and do it for the outcome
There are times when I’m real productive and motivated and times when I’m not. In those down times, what carries me forward is the momentum I’ve built up from the past. When I’m in my crazy workaholic mode, I set a lot of projects and ideas into motion. I talk to a lot of people and we get a lot of things going. Many of these projects are income related but all of them are outcome related. I’ve learned it’s important for me to build momentum in both areas. Continue reading
10 Spiritually Transmitted Diseases by Mariana Caplan, Ph.D.
Mariana Caplan, Ph.D. Psychotherapist and Author, Eyes Wide Open: Cultivating Discernment on the Spiritual Path writes, “It is a jungle out there, and it is no less true about spiritual life than any other aspect of life. Do we really think that just because someone has been meditating for five years, or doing 10 years of yoga practice, that they will be any less neurotic than the next person? At best, perhaps they will be a little bit more aware of it. A little bit. It is for this reason that I spent the last 15 years of my life researching and writing books on cultivating discernment on the spiritual path in all the gritty areas–power, sex, enlightenment, gurus, scandals, psychology, neurosis — as well as earnest, but just plain confused and unconscious, motivations on the path. My partner (author and teacher Marc Gafni) and I are developing a new series of books, courses and practices to bring further clarification to these issues.” Continue reading
The Magical Frittata and the Coast Guard Boarding
A friend emailed me a recipe for a frittata this week, and Cousin heard me laughing when it came in. What’s so funny about a frittata? he asked. A frittata is an unturned unfolded omelette, similar to a stovetop quiche, which is best served right off the stove. It has a wonderful creamy texture when eaten within moments of being cooked. If it sits too long, it is less tasty, kind of like cold scrambled eggs. Ugh. Why is that funny? The email came from a good buddy of mine, whom I went on a three month sailing trip with in 1983. Mark Tietig, now an attorney who handles civil rights cases, notably the “Topfree 10” in Florida, was blinded in a sailing accident in 1979. We met in 1982 and become fast friends immediately. An avid sailor before being blinded, Mark taught me how to sail and in 1983 we embarked upon what would be a three month sailing trip up the coast from Miami to Annapolis in his 33′ Cheoy Lee cutter rigged sailboat, La Calma. Continue reading
A Prayer From Dr. Masaru Emoto
Dr. Masaru Emoto‘s research reveals that water physically responds to emotions and communications. He says “Now let’s give energy of love and gratitude to the waters and all the living creatures in Mexico Gulf by praying like this: To the water, whales, dolphins, pelicans, fishes, shellfishes, planktons, corals, algae and all creatures in our Gulf of Mexico, I apologize. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.*”
Masaru Emoto May, 9th 2010
*This is also the ho’oponopono process
I attract the denial of my mortgage refinance
The past week has been spent waiting to hear back about the mortgage refinance I applied for a week ago. Everything had fallen magically into place for me, I had not even anticipated applying an hour before I did. I just figured OK the Universe wants me to get a mortgage refinance, that’s why it’s all happening so easily. The inspector and appraiser came out within days, I got good reports back and an appraisal within $4K of my guess-stimate. I did not need any repairs done – it was all good news! But then I began to have second thoughts about having jumped in so quickly with such a major decision. I’d also applied to include a $5500 loan for home improvements and thought – did I really want to finance that for 30 years? That seemed mega-stoopid. Continue reading