Domino writes: “Once again I thought I found the man of my dreams. Without warning, last month he said we were over. True, we’re not very compatible but we had fun so my heart hurts from missing him. We work together and are in the same social circles, so I see him almost every day. How do I remove the hurt from my heart? I feel like maybe I should change jobs and go to different churches and restaurants so I won’t see him anymore. How do I stop the pain?”
Andrea responded, “Those you attract to you are a manifestation of your vibration, every time. They come as evidence of what you’re doing vibrationally, every time. They came because you summoned them with your practiced vibration.” If you are with your partner as evidence of what you’ve been habitually doing vibrationally, it stands to reason that if you’d like a change, you’ll begin doing things to vibrate in a different place yourself. That can be as simple as focusing on new topics, focusing on new people, focusing on new places.
When parting from any kind of relationship, while it’s freeing to be able to say what you feel and have it all out in the open, there’s no need to go back and rehash “but you said this,” or “you promised that.” All that becomes irrelevant in the moment that either thinks, “This is no longer my destination.” Continuing beyond that point is a disservice to both parties. Now it’s time to move on to better feeling thoughts. Continue reading

Ah, election year. No matter who you cast your ballot for, know that you vote vibrationally with every thought you think. Things come to you 


