In July 2011, I wrote about The ladies man who presents himself as a guru and a soulmate.  A few weeks ago, his current fiancee made a Facebook post that she was heartbroken and devastated that he could leave her, literally bedridden, after promising he was brought into her life to help her heal from other physical problems. I know him to be a sociopath and a narcisscist.  I sent a note of support and we had a brief private conversation.  She wrote “he’s been with me pretty much 24/7 for over a year, so i know he’s not been cheating.”  I knew he became engaged to her within weeks of leaving his last (secret) relationship.  I didn’t need to tell her that.  A day later she wrote on my FB wall, “Thank you, Andrea, I grew up a little bit more today.”  A day later, she said she’d done her own research, including speaking with her ex.  He’d convinced her that based on my intervention, they were now back together and had me to thank for it.  It would be laughable in that I expected no less from him, laughable except that this is a woman’s heart and mind and health he is playing with.  A woman with small children living in the same home with her.  Under no circumstances is that funny.
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As soon as I awaken in the morning, I lie there and bask in how good it feels, how comfy the bed is, how soft, how cozy. I listen to the fan and stick my leg out to feel more of it, then back in when it’s too cool. I listen to the birds waking up and smell the jasmine in bloom. I milk those first few minutes of all the delight I can squeeze out of them until I absolutely have to get up. That starts my day in a good place, always. By doing this, you will begin the day with a raised vibration. That will bring you closer to your dreams and goals.

So you find yourself waking up at the same time after you’ve gone to bed each night?  What time is that?  Acupuncturists use the acupuncture meridian organ clock to diagnose and to determine the optimal time for treating specific imbalances.  Waking up automatically at the same time could mean your body needs to bring itself into balance in that area.  This chart illustrates the flow of chi (qi or life-force energy) through the meridians during the 24 hours of the day. Continue reading →

Meditate upon the meaning this card might have for you since it showed up at this exact moment. Not everyone saw this.  Not everyone attracted this message onto their monitor.  YOU DID. There are no mistakes.
MEANING:   It can be more difficult for you to see and/or to tap into the powerful, intuitive, and attractive energy that is flowing. The energy is there. Look for it. Allow yourself to feel it.  You may be finding it difficult to “hear” what your intuition is telling you. If so, it’s a clear signal to quiet down, spend some time in meditation, and spend some time alone. Try different approaches, including journaling, yoga or walking meditations. The info you seek is there. Trust yourself and your instincts. Continue reading →