Time to clear out the skeletons in your closet. No need to announce to the world all of your personal drama… instead go gently inside you and forgive yourself for any part you played in unkind roles. Roles that may have lead you to be irresponsible to yourself and others. Thank them for shaping your existence. While it may appear the heavy burdens you stuff into a closet will dissolve, it is not the case. The door can no longer close because your thoughts fed it to grow beyond what seems to be unbearable.The experiences of the past are not mistakes…. the choice to fuel them can be unhealthy. Today open the closet and turn the divine loving light on and ask for God to transmute all negative energy that no longer serves you and that does not resonate with who you truly are to Love, compassion, forgiveness. Breathe in your cleared space and fill it with beautiful creations of your now. Remember-The experiences of the past are not mistakes…. the choice to fuel them can be unhealthy. 

Anytime you feel negative emotion, stop and say:  Something is important here; otherwise, I would not be feeling this negative emotion. What is it that I want? And then simply turn your attention to what you do want.  In the moment you turn your attention to what you want, the negative attraction will stop; and in the moment the negative attraction stops, the positive attraction will begin. And—in that moment—your feeling will change from not feeling good to feeling good. That is the Process of Pivoting.
Abraham-Hicks   Excerpted from the book – Money and the Law of Attraction

I spent the last year with someone whom the legal system labelled a sex offender (not a predator, big distinction.)  Having a legal background, I familiarized myself with the law and the terms of his probation so that I, as the driver, would not inadvertently put him at risk.  First thing he did was made sure we could attend church together, it was no problem.  I awoke today to several Facebook messages asking me why sex offenders aren’t allowed to go to church, two mentioning my ex.  We’ve gone our separate ways so I don’t know what’s going on with him, but he IS allowed to go to church or choice of worship. If, however, there is a particular location that violates other terms of his probation, such as being near a school or city park, that’s a condition that might prevent his attendance. But he is allowed to go to church and worship.  He is also allowed to be around children unless, however, it is near a school or city park or location otherwise forbidden by probation.  Again that would be merely a location issue, as he is NOT forbidden to be around children. Continue reading →

It used to feel odd to have big gushes of love flowing from me directed to no one in particular. I feel it for the lizard flirting with me on the window, for the tomatoes growing on the vine and for the feel of the mail in my hands as I take it from the box. Every movement a dance and caress. Ah, and now the jasmine is trying to get my attention, tempting me with her fragrance.  She plays hard to get all day yet, at nightfall, she opens wide and spills her scent for me.

“Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.”  Robert Brault

A preview of me by Photographer Debi Buck beyondtheboxphotography.com/

Photographer Debi Buck

Had an AWESOME photo session today with world travelling photog Debi Buck. She made it fun, comfortable, professional, affordable!  Her studio and grounds are something to be seen (and psst… ask her to show you her gills.)  Her website is Beyond The Box Photography.  Have her do some fun profile shots or family shots for the summer. I can tell already she’s a sister and a new lifelong friend. Check her out.

My current tenants have moved out and I went by to check the home. It’s cleaner than I gave it to them and they spent thousands in improvements, painting, patio area, shutters, stepping stones, more. Plus they left an awesome weight bench, patio table and chairs I can use. I am humbled by their kind generosity and, best of all, new friends for life.  YAY to me for attracting them by always expecting the best and knowing the Universe loves to delight me with better than I ever dreamed possible.  I attracted that. Let me bask for a few minutes in how happy that makes me. That’s how more good things come to you, you know.  By spending time basking and appreciating what you’ve got.  Carry on.

Do you realize the power that you have when someone insults you or is unfair to you and you respond lovingly you will SHOCK them as they are not used to the type of response. You are showing them with your actions that there is another way to deal with issues. That SHOCK may cause them to go into their subconscious mind and figure out why they’re acting in this manner and heal their subconscious wounds. You’re giving them permission to forgive themselves and others. When someone is screaming or doing things that are inappropriate it’s obvious that they are not happy and that they are harboring pain from the past. Show compassion so your actions will transform to their truth which is love. We were born with love now we have to unlearn everything that society taught us until this very moment. It is not your job to change them. All you can do is be YOU. Don’t interfere or tell them what they are doing wrong. Quietly send them love and light and they will feel your energy. Your words, actions and energy must always be aligned in order to have the power to transform successfully. You can save them with your LOVE. Susan M. Garcia