My new bedroom

After I bought my new bed last week, I took a few days to redo my bedroom for the first time in several years.  I took down the heavy royal blue velvet drapes from the sliding glass door, and replaced them with navy sheers and a blue and yellow silken sari draped overhead at the curtain rod.  I can see right into the garden and I love the new look.  My former king bed was so big that it basically took up 1/3 of the room.    Tuesday I moved a large white credenza out of the bedroom and into the sitting room, behind the daybed.  What I call the daybed used to be the futon, however I just moved the heavy wooden futon base to the shed and replaced it with a standard twin bed frame.  It’s much more functional and now there’s  room for the chi to flow underneath the bed — good feng shui!  Continue reading →

When you focus upon an unwanted aspect of something in an effort to push it away from you, it only comes closer, because you get what you give your attention to whether it is something that you want or not.  It is up to you to focus upon and attract what you want.  How do you know what you’re really focusing on?  By what you are attracting into your life.

I love the cool sailing weekend in the Keys pics a pal posted on Facebook, but I’d remind her to check the windows for reflected bare skin and oh yes take that bag of weed off the bench for the next shot.

I saw part of a reality show on tv the other day and a bride to be was talking about why she wanted to find a husband:  she wanted someone to tell about her day when she came home from work and someone to help with the chores around the house.  A bachelor friend of mine told me he “wouldn’t mind a woman around the house to cook and such.”  Good grief.

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I spent Sunday alternately working on final layout of the the August issue of Horizons, and moving furniture around.  I’d read at a few feng shui websites to learn the beneficial  placements for a bed after I bought my new bed last week.  The first thing I learned was that I needed a headboard.  The past 10 years, my giant king bed had been positioned in the corner, with a dozen pillows arranged like a large settee.  I was glad to downsize to a double bed.  And since the head of the bed would be angled at a corner, I clearly needed a headboard. Continue reading →

My new bed

I bought my new bed last week.   I noticed a distinct chemical odor.  I Googled to find out what it was and found that is normal for a new mattress and that it’s simply an out-gassing of the internal materials, which are largely composed of chemical foam.  See below for how to remove it.  All bedding is non-returnable for health reasons.  State laws require a merchant to remove all the covering to the spring core and rebuild the mattress, even if its only been used one night.  Any merchant that accepts returns eats the cost of that re-manufacturing process, which is considerable.  Flame retardant is required by law.  Continue reading →

The final shuttle launch Atlantis happened yesterday at 11:29am.  I drove to Merritt Island about 2:30pm to pick up my computer, and there was launch traffic all along I-95, US1 and AIA.   Aaaugh, how to get back home??  Aha, I cruised home on South Tropical Trail from Highway 520 all the way down to Mathers Bridge seeing only a handful of drivers. I took a video showing the drive and posted it on Facebook.  The Indian River is on one side of me and the Banana River on the other. I always forget which is which.   While everyone else was stuck in the shuttle launch traffic, I took the road less travelled. Vibrational matches like these are evidence that I’m attracting good stuff.

Izzy just came in from outside and began meowing.  “Feed me.  Feed me now.  Now.  NOW!”  What he doesn’t know is that I opened a can just five minutes before and put it down for him.  So he’s freaking out and asking me for something he doesn’t yet realize has already been given to him.  I wonder how often I do that.   Like asking the Universe for something that I am too blind at the moment to realize I already have immediate access to.

Just because you love each other doesn’t mean you should get married.  Just because you’re married and fight doesn’t mean you should get divorced.  Just because you get divorced doesn’t mean you can’t stay the best of friends or come together in a new way.  Separation is good, it gives you relativity.  And when you’re divorcing your mate, be as generous and loving to them as you were when you fell in love.  It’ll help you make better decisions about property settlement.