A friend posed the question: Do, as some believe, those who commit suicide go to hell? She wrote: “Ppl who commit suicide have already been through, or is going through something worse than hell! And if it wasn’t gods plan his suicide wouldn’t have worked. No, I don’t believe ppl who commit suicide go to hell.” She asked what I believed. I believe no one goes to hell. My experience from communicating with those who have passed is that there is a period in the astral world of reflection on one’s life. It’s a period where those who’ve had strong beliefs about what happens after they die, EXPERIENCE whatever they’ve been taught to believe. This can feel like hell to those who are uneducated on the topic and don’t know what is happening.
To those who exercise their will and begin questioning what they see and asking for the meaning in it, answers begin to unfold and their journey takes another course. Everyone has the same chance to question in the moment what they experience and ask “Why is this happening? What is the meaning in it for me? How do I find my way out of this?” Those who ask the question will be answered. The answer will be shown and given to them numerous times until they begin to understand it. When they begin to understand it, they are given another series of choices. When they make those other choices, that lifts them “out of hell.” It takes some longer than others.
My experience — and this isn’t popular — is the magnitude of the crime is irrelevant; the deciding factor has to do with understanding, regret, remorse and forgiveness. As a criminal defense paralegal for 22 years, we often represented those who committed violent crimes and murder. I got to know many personalities in the flesh and in the astral world. Years later when I began mediumship work, one particular deceased defendant came to me as a gatekeeper to a client’s reading about a loved one. I had many conversations with him and through him accessed several more who had passed that I’d previously had connection with through the work I did at the law office when we represented them. Some were repentant. Some were not. It was a learning experience like no other.