A friend just said my ex wrote: “It is easy to attack a man that has been labeled “unjustly” a sex offender. It is easy to report him to Facebook as such and have his Facebook page taken down, and to have him banned from Facebook.” I have never reported him to FB. EVER. I’m sure FB keeps track of every key stroke and who it belongs to, so he just needs to check a little deeper into who had him kicked off if he indeed was. I’m sure FB also keeps track of deleted posts, deleted messages and deleted profiles and law enforcement has authority to access it all on a whim. Who cares? I just closed that door on that friendship and thought it was over. Oh, and “unjustly?” Read the trial transcript and decide for yourself.
He also wrote “Tearing down the woman I am currently involved with out of spite.” I’ve written nothing derogatory about the woman he’s with, I accuse her of nothing. Jeremy and I were fine with being friends after his Facebook exposure until she convinced him he needed to battle and sue me. He’s impressionable. She doesn’t know him or me. I’ve slandered no one. He and I know the truth. I forgive what he says about me, God and I know it’s not real. A quick online research tells me if he got two FDLE pics taken one month apart, someone reported he changed his appearance or he wrote on Facebook that he shaved and his probation officer saw it or someone reported it. I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT EITHER. I called his probation officer once when he was in her office to ask him to call his employer. Period. And unless his probation conditions changed in February, he is NOT prevented from being around children, so that is not true.
Jeremy: I’ve said before, the ones around you are not your friends. I did not have you taken off Facebook. I have never condemned you as a sex offender. As God is my witness, on my mother’s soul, I had a hand in none of that. I am not even focused in your direction, however, while we’re here: returning Ken’s guitar will go a good way in cleaning up past karma. We see the world, not as it is, but as WE are.
This is why I don’t go back and delete FB posts after an argument has gone on. Let everyone see for themselves as it unfolded. In that process, I expose my wounds and I share my healing in real time. Big Brother watching? I say, so what. Life is so much easier with nothing to hide.
Jeremy can still read my page from his music account. He’s troubled, he’s misinformed by those with their own agenda and he’s dealing the only way he knows how. Bless him, I love him and thank him for his part in my life and in my spiritual growth. When the pendulum swings, he will know that and have as much peace as he will allow. Good reminder for us all: “Don’t let the sound of your own wheels make you crazy.”
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