“Jeremy and Misty, sorry, I am dealing with real things right now and can’t be bothered with your deceptions. Know that who you think are your friends are not since they are contacting me. I’ve had wacky chicks calling and messaging me for days, supposedly friends of yours, telling me stuff that I don’t care about and is none of my business. You’re both single, who cares? And what kind of friends are those anyway? I do not need the stress. No hard feelings but please block me and let’s be done.  I wish you well.”

I have to cop to attracting this situation by who I hang with and where I allow my focus to linger.  I attracted this into my life trying to help someone untangle theirs, thinking they were serious about it. Mea culpa. Believe someone when they boast about leaving Armageddon in their wake, then get out fast and pray for them.

I was the one who chose to let my focus get wrapped up in what someone else wanted instead of what I wanted. I was never a victim, always a volunteer.  He has lucid moments of clarity when he remembers who he really is.  Those are good discussion times.  I’m not so much into ‘let’s make me a rockstar’ but whatever his dream is, I wish him well in it.  Truly.

Stuff happens. Always for the best. There are no mistakes.

That’s why it’s called “spiritual practice.” We always talk it long before we walk it. When we begin listening to our own talk, that’s when we begin the walk. When I fall down, I take a look around and find what I need to get back on track. Bless everyone who makes the effort.

The bottom line? I’m good with it.  He and I were done, never any long term plans. He’s had a hard life, I cut him slack, but lying?  I’m gone.  She’s known for stirring up trouble behind the scenes. Also for being a good massage therapist.  Karma is only a bitch when you are.  I wish them well. Vibrational match.  It always is.

Afternote:  When I thought this topic was long over, Misty later posted: “Andrea I am so sorry you are hurting. It does not take much for one to see the tone of this post was written from a place of pain, and you have every reason to feel such pain. You and jeremy had a great love story. No matter how it ended, the depth of what you two shared can never be compared. Your journey inspired us all, to reach toward new heights, and walk through your fears. We all got to share in that, the highs and the lows, from the many blogs written, and facebook posts. I was thankful to you, and to him, for both of you revealed parts of yourself that promoted growth for us all. In many respects I felt he brought you closer to us all, and even now in the pain you have and are revealing to the world, I feel more closer to you than I ever did before. I have great compassion for you, and love you still no matter how you need to view me.”

I replied: “Misty, no pain, I step out of drama. We were long over except as friends, the betrayal was the lies.  Most illuminating confirmation was coming across the in-process messages you were typing each other when I opened the laptop for the first time since the crazy messages and calls, and thought the FB page I was opening was my own. I click on what Iooked like a msg to me from you and find you and he are talking.  I watched mesmerized for a few minutes not knowing what I was seeing, then logged out of his accounts and cleared all passwords. I wish you well.”

I thought this was over
A peaceful end to a roller coaster ride
You want to heal and teach? Tell the story as it really happened

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