Healing takes place when we forgive and heal everything from our past, leaving no stone unturned, no person passed over. We become healers when we have healed our own past, and made peace with all persons.  Several FB friends wrote and asked how I felt about my ex promoting himself as a healer with his song, singing of stepping stones yet denying his own. I say he is entitled to tell his own story. It is none of my business if he chooses to leave unfinished business and people from his past out of it. He knows the truth. Since we met, he’s never had to stand alone and do for himself. In trying to help, I disabled him, not knowing I was doing so. I have apologized.  That’s someone else’s lesson now. When his soul is ready, he will stand on his own and know who he is and embrace all that ever brought him to that place.  His ego will take it as a dare to man up and he will. In talking it, is when many learn to walk it. Let everyone do so at their own pace. It is not for me to judge. Nor is it for me to judge you judging me.
**IF YOU FIND THIS HARSH, and forget my ex agreed on Day One to all lessons being publicly aired, give him credit for not denying his actions and just endeavoring to do it different the next time.  My grander lesson was that in trying to help, I disabled him, not knowing I was doing so. I don’t write to tell you how special I am, I write to tell you what I find I do wrong in life and what steps I take to correct it so it doesn’t happen again, to me or to anyone else who’s waiting to receive that information.  I’ve moved on, but it is for me to tell the truth of my story, when asked for it.
Never doubt you have the power to change someone’s life