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Does focusing on “it” attract “it?”

I’ve not been updating this blog because I’m on Facebook all day and I interact there.
A Facebook friend wrote,I am starting to wonder about this thing called “Attraction.” Who is showing more Faith as Christians would say. So my question is The Minister has Faith he and his flock of friends will not get sick. Whereas you say you sprayed disinfectant on your neighbor’s mailbox. Does that not draw through Law of Attraction the fear of this Virus and of course the Virus? Just wondering.”

Andrea’s response:  That was an excellent observation. My experience is what someone does and says does not always reflect their vibrational resonance. We attract what we resonate with, not what WE SAY we resonate with. Also, without knowing their life, we don’t know how much momentum is in motion from previous actions.

Manifestation = belief plus expectation, intention and  focus, minus resistance and momentum from prior actions. Continue reading

Sheltering in Place. There will be no print edition of the May or June Horizons

Since non-essential stores and practitioners are closed through April 30, I spoke to them and we decided to not print a May Horizons to let everyone catch back up.  All businesses will be back open as soon as the government gives the ok.  

There is a May issue online and there will be a June issue online. Fingers crossed for all to be back to normal in time for the July issue.  If you’re an advertiser or subscriber, your contract will be extended by two months. Deadline for the June online Horizons is May 20th.

The May Horizons is now online and here are the horoscopes.

 

Renew your ficticious name directly online for $50, don’t pay F.A.N.S. to do it for $150

In the mail I just got a “2020 Ficticious Name Instruction Form for Florida Businesses.” For $150 payable to F.A.N.S. they will renew my ficticious name for me. Only at the bottom does it state “this application for renewal of ficiticious name can be filed directly with the state for the statutory $50 fee. That means you can renew it yourself online for $50. I have a year left on mine, yet their notice said “Respond by 1/24/2020” and it came First Class Presort You can check when yours expires here http://dos.sunbiz.org/ficinam.html

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When your life falls apart, what to do next?

I watched 2 movies, very different but with similar premise: Up In The Air with George Clooney and The Secret Life of Walter Mitty with Ben Stiller and Kristen Wiig. Both begin with a large corporation downsizing, leaving hundreds of employees wondering how they’re going to make it after giving half their life to a company that just let them go. Half the sessions I do are callers in that same situation, asking for guidance, asking for their next step. Here are my thoughts.

It helps to have a few basic goals, skills to qualify you for those goals and to have a Plan B. Not everyone has the time to daydream about Plan B, what another life may look like. They may find themselves working several jobs to support a family with barely time to sleep. But if you’re gonna be successful in being flexible to navigate whatever life throws at you, you gotta get a Plan B.  Continue reading

Aah Jim Bless those who go out of their way to comfort others in times of need

Always look for the helpers,” Mr. Rogers told us. And I do. When a hurricane is off the coast, I make a point to go on Facebook and point out what silver linings I can to those enmeshed in storm prep. I don’t know the technical mechanics of how hurricanes work, I just share my past experiences with a hopeful outlook. I’m usually messaging with FB friends for hours and enjoy it. This time as Hurricane Dorian approached, I was days out of surgery and sleeping a ton. I didn’t have time for much messaging but wouldn’t turn any down. “Give me the energy to respond or guide me otherwise.” Next time I checked my FB news feed, I saw for the first time one of Aah Jim‘s Don’t Panic weather updates.  Woot! Prayers answers at the moment of asking. I sent a friend request and began sharing his posts. Lots of FBF found him and we were all comforted by his REAL FACTS info and explanation of the how and why of the storm itself. I asked if I could Paypal him some $$ and he declined. No one has ever done that. “This is a labor of Love to counter the forces of Fear in our lives,” he said. “This is a private weather service provided to my friends and their friends receiving no government funding and no corporate sponsorship. Be strong against the forces of fear and chaos, and above all Don’t Panic.”
This is sacred work, keeping everyone in the know while helping them keep calm. I was glad to find and share his posts, to learn from an expert in the field what was really happening, since the news and weather always exaggerate every ‘cane into the storm of the century. It greatly cut down on the amount of stress and anxiety I and my friends felt. Yes, I still prepared as if there might be a Florida hit or pass over, but knew right away, according to all the models and info he shared, there wouldn’t be nearly what mainstream media said there’d be. Bless those who take it as a sacred duty to help bring FACTS, a voice of reason, peace and comfort to those in need of it in times of distress. Continue reading

Check your car insurance prices, I saved $1375 by leaving Liberty Mutual

I hadn’t checked car insurance prices in years. I was stunned when I did. You should really check yours. My Liberty Mutual renewal was going to be $2425/yr.
Geico quoted me $1332 for the exact same coverage.
Progressive quoted me $1210 for the exact same coverage.
AAA south quoted me $1050 for the exact same coverage
— THEN I went to Liberty Mutual online and asked for a quote and it was $1774 for the exact same coverage they want me to renew at $2425.  WTAF?????

AAA south is my new carrier.

Whining about my hair

I can keep whining and lamenting the loss of inches of hair or I can enjoy having a wispier cut for the hot summer months and look forward to it growing back before I know it. Which do you think will give me the results I want quickest?

Note to self: next time, go to salon BEFORE picking up scissors. I didn’t realize that evening it up meant losing long strands in the front. This is good for my sadhana, letting me see how identified with my hair I’d become and how vain about it. A good reminder that everything goes away, It all becomes dust in the wind. I should enjoy what I have when I have it.

I dig watching the Burn Notice Miami street scenes

I’ve been watching Burn Notice on Hulu, set in Miami and Miami Beach. I enjoy seeing how all the old locations look now. It’s fun to recognize many of the neighborhoods, particularly the downtown area where the courthouses were and where I worked since my 20’s as a criminal defense paralegal. The Star Island and Hibiscus Island, Palm Island locations reminded me of several high-profile criminal defendants we had that were in the news at the time. But to tell my story would be telling their story and I don’t have authority to do that. Needless to say I loved my job, I was good at it and every day was a trip.