I admit I’m selfish. Sometimes being selfish is the best thing you can do for your loved ones. You know, put YOUR air mask on first so you can stay alive to help them. “Your greatest value to others is when you are joyful. Your greatest value to others is when you are connected. Your greatest value to others is to be radiantly healthy. Your greatest value to others is to have and do all the things that are important to you. And as you are living that and vibrating that– then you are a catalyst that is inspiring others to an awareness of that.” Abraham-Hicks