Monthly Archives: June 2013

At age 40-60 you’ll reconnect with people from 20-40 years ago

If you knew you would, in your 50’s and 60’s, run in people you knew in your 20’s and 30’s, would you treat them differently?  Even if you move half way around the world, that’s how it’s set up.  People come back into our lives decades down the road to give us a chance for a do-over.  If I knew that at age 20, 30 or even 40, I would never have placed blame and held grudges.  When you reconnect, often you find that only one held onto the pain.  Don’t let it be you.

Tarot of the Day: Ten of Wands

Your Card for today.  Meditate upon the meaning this card might have for you since it showed up at this exact moment. Not everyone saw this.  Not everyone attracted this message onto their monitor.  YOU DID. There are no mistakes. Feel free to share.

MEANING: You may feel as though you are carrying a burden. You may want to look and see if there are any ways that you might lighten your load. You may find part of the burden you are carrying emotionally belongs to someone else. It will be important for you to pace yourself now. Don’t try to do too much.  If you are tired from working very hard, give yourself a break. Continue reading →

Tarot Card of the Day: The World Reversed

Your Card for today.  Meditate upon the meaning this card might have for you since it showed up at this exact moment. Not everyone saw this.  Not everyone attracted this message onto their monitor.  YOU DID. There are no mistakes.
MEANING:  Although there is a great deal of potential and promise for you, you may be feeling stuck. This is an excellent time to review how well you do at asking for help when you need it. Remember you don’t have to do everything on your own. This can be a card of completion. You’ve worked hard, and you are almost to the finish line in some way. You’re in need of some well deserved rest and relaxation; don’t be afraid to take it. You are getting closer to who you really are, at your deepest levels. If you aren’t seeing this progress when the world appears in reverse, take stock. What is standing in your way? Where are you stuck? Continue reading →

Are we talking about the same person?

A pal and I were talking about a decades-long mutual friend. They know them to be serious and somber. I know them to be a kooky goofball. We each bring out different facets of the people we encounter. It’s kinda cool we can control that by how we are with them, huh?

Giggling releases the endorphins

I pulled out a prototype self hypnosis cd I made in 2007 giving the mechanics of releasing endorphins into the bloodstream. A few minutes into the suggestions, the cd skipped. I smiled. It skipped again. And again. I began giggling.  So it worked! Even though I didn’t get to hear the whole cd, endorphins got released.   I’m always making hypno cds for myself  for whenever I want to reprogram a thought quickly.  This one, though, is purely for pleasure.

If I focused myself into it, I can focus myself out of it

“Just as you’ve focused yourself into a place of sadness over loss, you can focus yourself into a better feeling place.”  Abraham-Hicks.   I know if I continue to focus on loss and grief, I will amplify my feeling of loss and grief. If I turn my attention to some silly something that gives me a few moment’s relief, that helps me step up the emotional spiral so I can attract even better feeling thoughts, and then more of them, and then more of them.  Before I know it, I connect back to who I really am and realize there is no loss and, with that understanding, there is no grief.  If I focused myself into it, I can focus myself out of it.

What is your REAL complaint?

I seem to have lost my patience with perpetual complainers. Yes, I know the government is imperfect. Yes, I know there are selfish people conspiring. Yes, I know that many people lack integrity. Yes, I know that western culture is materialistic and superficial. Yes, I know that the opposite sex has disappointed you. Yes, I know you question the existence of God. But what is your REAL complaint? What are you really trying to express about the lack of love, attention, attunement, satisfaction in your life? What lives below your projections onto the ‘system’ as the cause of all your challenges? What created your glass half-empty perspective? And, perhaps most importantly, what are you going to do to convert all that negative energy into positive action? When are you going to stop hiding behind your victimhood? What are you going to do to accept realities you can’t control and find your beautiful smile? And how can I help you to believe again? Jeff Brown