A friend and writing partner has been spending time here as we work together on various projects, and he’s become a regular fixture in the other room. I’m someone who is used to — for a dozen years at a stretch – being alone, spending time alone, living alone. Most friends and family, no matter how beloved, I tend to allow them to distract me from whatever I perceive my purpose to be in the moment, so I seldom have people over. It’s nice to find a brother on the Path who is equally motivated and dedicated, and who is so easy to share space with. We’ll have the computers side by side sometimes, quietly working on our individual stuff. I even got to impose upon him to sneak over and feel the kitties last week after a tummy upset confined me to my room. As I drifted in and out of sleep during the next day, it was comforting hearing him typing or playing music in the other room. He stopped in a few times to see if I needed anything, brought me fluids and saltines. But he mostly let me know someone was there and cared about my well being. Kinda cool when that happens.
Daily Archives: May 8, 2012
I had a food epiphany this weekend
I had a food epiphany this weekend. The last month, I’ve been cooking for a friend and eating foods I don’t typically eat, like sandwiches, chips, granola bars, popcorn. While I wasn’t really overeating, I was eating heavier and greasier stuff (bread, meat, cheese) than I typically eat. Then I had a craving for Cantonese Lo Mein and two days later I had a bout of upset tummy and purging for a vigorous 18 hours. I kn0w the lo mein has a lot of oil in it. Since 2006, I keep my fat grams under 60 a day. I’m sure the one serving of lo mein had 80+ grams. Continue reading
