I am happy to help people figure their way out. But they have to be working on it too, taking action. Someone asked me for help. I said to report a situation then ignore it, let it go. Instead of reporting it, the story kept being told over and over to different people. Instead of reporting it, a rant was posted on Facebook changing the story I originally got, now alleging a crime, except ‘the evidence got deleted.’  Do not call me unless you’re serious about wanting resolution. Don’t ask friends to do the work for you.

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