Juggling too many at once

The theme this week in readings seems to be both men and women who resent that their lover or partner wants to keep them a secret from friends, from family and on Facebook. I read for about a thousand people a year.  I hear everyone’s stories.  I see the patterns.  If they want to keep you a secret, that is because they are juggling you with someone else or a few, and none of you know about the others. I know it because hundreds tell me they do it. What they don’t count on is the underground network of Facebook and real life friends who also contact each other behind the scenes and discover they’re all being lied to for different benefits.  2013 is the year for no more secrets, no more lies.  When you stop putting up with it, you will stop attracting it.

Profile of the Sociopath
How one clairvoyant sees the world

“The true artist is a sacred performer who must do the magic that causes others to participate in conditional reality in the sacred sense, in the sense of love, in the sense of self-transcendence, in the sense of ecstasy.” Adi Da

Domino asks:  In your opinion, when emotions start trying up from deep, like your body is physically forcing itself to cry, do you feel this is something that has been addressed trying to heal?  And you have no clear idea what the emotion is about. What’s your experience?

Andrea:  When emotions come up, especially if it’s a grief or hurt that has say, the same intensity as an anger, where you just can’t momentarily get out of it, when your emotional body temporarily overtakes your mental body, that means something has been triggered.  When they’ve been triggered, it can either be that you have been working on them and they are rising to the surface to be dissipated, or it can be a signal it is time to address them to release them. Tell me what you are experiencing.”

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I never want to get between a friend and their dream or their mission.  Even if that dream or mission does not include me. Friends encourage friends in their goals and help them to become all they can be.  If that means having to step out of someone’s life for that to proceed, so be it.  True friends have a soul connection, whether they have an in person connection or not.  True friends step away when guided to step away. No questions asked. Only when the ones that no longer serve you step away, can the ones you are more ready for appear.

I walk around my hood during the nighttime hours.  I love hearing the night sounds and the crickets.  After returning from two long and stressful days of not much sleep, I’d returned to a few emails trying to irk me or warn me saying they saw my ex out and about with a mutual friend in my absence.  To them I say: no worries.  He’s just a friend, he’s not my mate. She’s just moved up to Melbourne, so maybe he’s showing her around. If not, who cares? So in my walk just now, seeing her car in his yard across the street at 4:00am gave me a big smile. Everyone deserves happiness. Jai Guru Deva, nothing’s gonna change my world.

Ya gotta laugh.  It really puts it all in perspective when there is something major going on, taking all my attention for days, dealing with paperwork, lack of sleep and people’s emotions. I get home to check email and a few supposed friends feel the need to tell me they saw my ex out and about in my absence.  Who cares?  We’re just friends. Since it’s none of my business (nor yours,) you might question what was your purpose in telling me? To add to my happy thoughts?  To console my grieving heart over losing several loved ones in the last 36 hours, to help me into a better feeling place?  Just wondering.  No biggie.  Little stuff like this pales in comparison to what I’ve just been through.  In this little gossip town, who cares who talks to whom?  I don’t.  Really.  It’s a big world out there, and we’re all entitled to all of it.