You want to come into my life, the door is open.  You want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one request.  Don’t stand in the doorway, you’re blocking traffic. Until recently, I was irked at a friend I felt had wasted months of my time, knowing I had projects I was waiting to do. It was my choice to upset my schedule to accommodate theirs, to put my projects on hold while I helped them achieve theirs. I attracted a situation which took months to be free of.  I’m not irked now, but an honest 3 minutes would have prevented fallout. I can’t fault anyone for doing what they feel they must do to survive. I can’t wish for them anything other than what I’d wish for myself. I endeavor in my life to not stand in the way of what anyone wants to do with their life, whether their life includes me or not. Life is too short to be indecisive. Never let me stand in your doorway and block traffic. And please don’t stand in mine.