I write this since it’s being brought up YET AGAIN when it was long over. In 2012 a friend and I argued and GOT OVER IT. Afterwards, a mutual Facebook friend decided instead of amicably resolving through understanding and taking of personal responsibility (which he did) Someone needed to instead be ticked off and sue me. Someone and I soon defriended Third Party. Although WE had moved past it, the argument caused a lot of behind the scenes activity with FB “friends.” I played down the fact of being harassed almost daily for months by people with phony profiles for accounts deactivated, because they thrived on the attention. It became clear who the source of the harassment was but I reported no one. I simply responded to their concerns in my blog. I was accused of things they later found others had done, yet did not amend the blog accusing me. Third Party now, months later, is again actively making accusations about things she wasn’t in the picture to witness. Under the guise of “seeking advice on reconciliation,” she’s mentioning her story to many we mutually know. Bless everyone she feels she needs to involve in this situation for whatever her agenda is. Count me out. I delete her emails as they come in. Bless her. I moved on months ago. It’s between he and I, period. If my friend and I have something to say to each other, one of us will reach out. It’s not for anyone else to decide when or even if that ever needs to happen.
Yearly Archives: 2013
To the one writing me about confrontation and mediation
I know you’re acting like you’re trying to help. This is a matter between two people and you’re not one of them. You look at it as a confrontation needing mediation in a public place?? All it takes is a few simple emails between the parties involved, when either wants it. There is no hurry. You are not one of those parties. No drama required. I no longer read your emails.
RELATED: It’s all related.
A friend and I discover the spidey sense amplified between us
Me: “You should do this for money.”
He: “If I was good at it, I would.”
Me: “Hold my hand. Give me whatever impressions come to mind.”
He: “The first thing is a man in a sailor suit, he came right away.” Next, “elephants with their trunks going wild.”
Me: “I rest my case.”
Earlier in the day I did a reading, and the client sent me a photo of her father in a sailor suit. I laundered all the wall hangings today and also included the footstool cover, which depicts dozens of elephants with upraised trunks. I count that as two direct hits. If you want to keep your skills up, all it takes is practice.
To any third parties trying to mediate, don’t
Bless you, but you’re just causing damage with your misunderstood intervention. If there’s anything to be resolved, it would be between the two parties. They can email each other directly when either wants contact. Thanks for your concern, helpful person. And to anyone who has any questions for me personally, between you and I, feel free to email me a list of your concerns and I will be happy to address them. I welcome input; it helps me consider course correction. Everyone is my teacher.
I’ve had my 15 minutes many times over
It’s nice to be wanted! I just got my third offer in 30 days to be included in projects getting national exposure, all requiring very little input on my part… Call me crazy but more exposure just feels like more work. I’m looking to slow down and chill out. I feel I’ve had my 15 minutes many times over. As a 12th house Aries, I’m comfortable behind the scenes.
Reaping the consequence of words and actions
In trying to help, she talked so long and loud about what her new friend had already moved past, what had died down months earlier, that she moved him up in the search engine rankings, and not for his best work. That’s what happens when you make choices from a place of disconnection, for personal inclusion. This is why you never speak for someone else. If you don’t know enough to help them, at least stop hurting them in the name of standing up for an underdog. He’s not an underdog. He’s a man doing his best to get his life together the only way he knows how, and he’s making progress. Stop seeing him as someone who needs to be fixed and stop identifying him by the label that keeps being brought up.
Tarot Card of the Day: Page of Cups Reversed
Your Card for today. Meditate upon the meaning this card might have for you. Not everyone saw this. Not everyone attracted this message onto their monitor. YOU DID. There are no mistakes.
MEANING: When the reversed Page of Cups appears, it’s a signal to allow yourself to play and dream, but that you must remain grounded in reality. Knowing the difference between dreams and wishful thinking and what is really happening can be especially challenging now. This card shows a need to play, to dream, to have a little fun. At the same time, you have to know where the boundaries lie. Eventually we all have to pay the piper in some way. Be aware that actions have consequences. Continue reading
Not everyone can face a mirror every day. Until you work it out with one, you’re going to keep getting that lesson
If you’re spending time with another human, you’re going to have disagreement. How you feel about each other will waver back and forth. It’s not easy having a mirror right in front of you. Only when you don’t recognize it as a mirror does it become uncomfortable. That’s when moods begin swinging. That’s when doors begin swinging. Until you work it out with one of them, you’re going to keep getting that lesson in the form of others just like them. Different face. Different name. Mates, employers, children. Same lesson. Make it easy on yourself. Pick just one of those people to work it out with and get on with your happy life. Oh and yes, of course, make amends with the past, owning up to yourself where you’ve been untruthful, then forgiving everyone and everything in it, including yourself.
Hawaiian Forgiveness Ho’oponopono Process
Tarot Card of the Day: The Lovers
Your Card for today. Meditate upon the meaning this card might have for you since it showed up at this exact moment. Not everyone saw this. Not everyone attracted this message. YOU DID.
MEANING: The Lovers is associated with the astrological sign of Gemini. It almost always points to partnerships with just one other person; generally, and not surprisingly, this indicates a romantic partnership, but this is not always the case. Less frequently, it points to the duality that all of us have inwardly – between male/female, yin/yang, approach/avoidance, and the like. You may feel ambivalent about a relationship or situation in your life. It could be that your heart is telling you one thing, and your head, another. Continue reading
When my soul is fulfilled, I don’t need someone to rub molecules with
I’ve been working on final layout of the July Horizons Magazine this week and not much else. This afternoon I got to have a quick sushi with a pal before getting into the evening work. It’s cool when a pal lives within walking distance, works from home as I do, and we have similar habits, lifestyle, interests and language. It gives us that automatic shorthand that makes conversation so effortless, revelatory and satisfying. For someone with as little free time for socializing as I, that’s a big plus. My ideal relationship with a man is that of a brother on the Path, someone interested in connection to Source – whatever that looks like to them, personal growth, yoga, fitness, meditation. Someone who likes their quiet, contemplative time, someone aware of their own psychic connection and the power of each holy instant. Continue reading