I was watching Millionaire Matchmaker last night.   Matchmaker Patti Stanger has the women change their look (why does everyone have to straighten their hair??) and dress skin tight.  That’s kinda false advertising. No politics or religion talk, she has the men go overboard impressing with gifts and extravagant first dates. Well, who wouldn’t be swept away being Cinderella for a day? To my mind, that starts things off in a disingenuous way.  Let her like you for you.  If she likes who you are, then bring out some toys.  Why change anything for a first meeting? How about a walk in a park talking about whatever is most important to you as a first get together? Imagine that.

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