With all due respect: I know enough to know that if I had anything to do with it, it was simply to give you the space to relax into your own true self for long enough to remember who you were, so you could bring yourself back to balance.  That’s what friends are for.  Actually it’s just friends who simply need a little encouragement to transcend their familiar band of perception. To have a glimpse of a moment’s clarity and peace, to see there’s more out there. I can “teach” more by sitting in silence with someone for 10 minutes than talking to them for 4 hours.  Words don’t teach.  It’s how you are with someone that teaches.