I’ll scream if I hear from one more galpal who’s upset that she hooked up with some random guy she just met and they had a wild 24 hours before he blew her off.  Give the guy a little time to get to know who you are to see if you even like who he is.   These are not 20 year olds I’m talking about; these are chicks who know this is how it often goes.  Save something for later, just in case there IS a later.   Either that or change your perception so you’re not a basket case strung out for  months about it.  Because remember: when you’re the basket case, that’s the next kind of guy you’ll attract.  You’re always a vibrational match to whoever or whatever you attract.  And also remember that, even if it’s true, if you keep telling that story, you’ll keep having that experience.