A reading last night that is a universal scenario: You’ve caught him lying again and told him what you expect of him if you are going to remain in the relationship and he keeps doing it and asking for second chances? That’s because he doesn’t care enough to make a change and he knows you’ll likely do nothing about it. Period. He’s willing to go along with the program as long as you’re handling everything. How long are you willing to to live this way? Drop the rock in your hands and the Universe will fill it with diamonds.  Two friends after reading this sent me messages that this note was speaking to them. It’s hard when we love someone, when we remember how they used to be, when we remember how WE used to be, when we think of their potential and see it all going down the drain. It’s hard when everyone is in a form of depression because they haven’t found that spark that gives their life meaning, they have nothing really that they want to wake up for in the mornings. That’s the soul calling out to you. You need to expect and believe you will somehow be cared for and guided to make good decisions and hard choices. You need to trust that you will be fine and there are people around you right now that can help you make the change and make the move. These can seem insurmountable when you have to walk out of a situation you’ve gotten used to.  Cut the cord.  You can always pick it back up later if it feels right, after you’ve had a break from the energy.  But know what’s a lifeline and what’s an anchor.