I just cancelled $450 worth of appointments with particular (and fave!) clients just so I can stay off  a particular topic and get out of a particular vibe.  I love helping friends who help themselves, but it’s not my job to fix anyone who doesn’t want to be fixed.  Wait, it’s not my job to fix anyone, period.  You know what my job is?  My job is fixing me.  So am I losing $450 income?  No.  It just won’t come from those particular clients.  It will instead come from, well, from wherever it is right now.  When I let go of what’s no longer fun, I leave that vibe and step into another. That new vibe will be my new source of income. Everyone wins.