In my 20’s I spent most of my time:  trying to figure out who I was.
In my 30’s I spent most of my time:  trying to convince myself I knew who I was.
In my 40’s I spent most of my time: deprogramming myself , proving who I could be.
In my 50’s I spent most of my time:  realizing who I actually am is ok after all.
What about you?