Friends, when you send me a massive email telling me your side to a big long argument with someone, don’t be angry when I don’t want to read it.  If I read yours, then to be fair I should hear the other side.  I don’t want to hear either side.  Work it out.  Get over it. You’re adults.  If you really want my input, I’m glad to schedule a session for $160 an hour for you.  We’ll work that right out.  You let me know.