I’m often asked for a simple and effective cord cutting ritual so click here for it. I came across this article and wanted to share:
“One of the most important things a person can do for their relationship evolution is cutting cords that still bind them to previous relationships and prevent them from completing those relationships in the highest of ways. Most people do not realize that when you have a relationship with someone your energetic systems become connected, especially when there is a strong emotional or mental event between both parties such as a traumatic or painful event. We create energy cords through sex and when we make conscious or subconscious vows, contracts, promises or oaths (spoken and unspoken) with the other person.”

“These energy cords of attachment are connected to one or more chakras of both people. The frequency of the thoughts and emotions that you had with that person will resonate with the energy of a specific chakra. For example if you experience a heartbreak or betrayal then you can create a cord between your heart chakra and the other person’s heart chakra. This means that even though a relationship ends, the energetic relationship is still there despite the time passed. And even though you may be physically separate now, you’re still very much connected to them energetically. So the same energy dynamic is going on (drama, pain and suffering), even though consciously you may think the relationship is completed. This can drain your energy and pulse your emotionally body, depending on where the cords are located. This is why many people continue to constantly think about their ex partner and feel the pain of past events.

The process of cutting cords on all levels of your awareness is the most important step to complete past relationships in the highest of ways and to remove any energetic cords that are attached between you and the other person. This is the only way your soul can close the chapter and be ready to move on to higher relationships, events and experiences. Not cutting cords often results getting stuck in a low frequency relationship karmic loop where the same things keep happening over and over again. Going back to the previous example of betrayal and heartbreak, if you had these experiences during a previous relationship and you told yourself “I had enough, I am going to leave this person”, but even though you are physically separated from him or her the energetic cords from that experience will keep you connected to that person.

The problem is that all the painful and traumatic experiences that you created in that relationship will then be carried in your soul memory and on to your next relationship. In fact the frequency of those unresolved energy cords and karmic ties will attract you to people, places, times, things and events that resonate with the frequency of that abuse, anger, grief, betrayal, heartbreak, pain and hurt. So when you do manifest another relationship you will have a tendency to project onto your new relationship all of this anger and hurt from the past one. These relationship cycles continue over and over and the person is not aware why their relationships fail or why they can’t attract a different type of person. So they keep creating more and more similar experiences and the energetic blockages become more solidified, they continue to add more etheric mass and the negative frequencies get stronger. This is one of the main reason divorce rates dramatically increase for 2nd and 3rd marriages. And ultimately this will affect the person’s health and well-being.

Many of these karmic relationships, often love-hate relationships are from past lifetimes which our soul brings back into our lives so that we can finally resolve and absolve the karma and move on. It is very common for some of our worst enemies from past lives to actually incarnate into our own family or come back as a future spouse. So think about all your past relationships that have not been completed in the highest of ways and imagine if you could call up all of the karmic ties that were created from these past relationships and permanently remove all energetic attachments. Then you are able to connect with them from a place of higher giving love, gratitude and compassion in order to complete the relationship in the highest of ways. In this way, the person will not be brought back into your life later to resolve this, or you won’t have to resolve this in another relationship or future lifetime.

In cutting cords of attachment, some of the most common relationships that are important to focus on are:

– mother/daughter, father/son, husband/wife, past friends, past lovers, past abusive relationships, and relationships with employers.

When we clear the karmic ties and cut cords of attachments between you and your family members, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have a relationship with them anymore. It just means that your relationship will evolve from a karmic or codependent one, into a relationship or union of higher love and understanding.? A true union is when you can love the other person and not expect anything back from them in return, and allow them to be who they are. In this way, you have two people who are truly whole, and not just trying to extract what they feel that they lack in themselves from the other person. And they are also not trying to constantly change the other person.”

From http://ascendedrelationships.com/cutting-energy-cords/

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