Armand Della Volpe speaks with experience as a consciously evolving male. He posted on Facebook “Over and over I hear of women whose hearts get broken when they rush into relationships based upon what the men tell them. WARNING: Whatever a man says to a woman he is sexually attracted to during the “intoxication stage” is being driven by hormones and is not to be trusted. I’m not saying that men are consciously lying, I’m just saying that most men are clueless about what they really feel when they are inebriated on love drugs. I know this may burst the romantic fairy tale bubble but how can it hurt to wait 18-36 months before making any big commitments while you get to know each other and allow the love drugs to wear off. I know this sounds sexist but my experience shows that this unconscious lying happens more from men than women relative to physical attraction. I don’t think most men consciously lead women on in order to satisfy their needs. I know amazing men who are lightworkers and are committed to conscious living. However, they are so desperate to be in love, they make rash decisions and say unfounded things while inebriated with brain chemistry. This is lying for sure with dramatic consequences and horrible karma but I do believe it’s mostly unconscious.”
“If you are jumping into romantic love before truly getting to know your partner, it is most likely an act of desperation and desperate actions usually produce desperate consequences.“…yogi armandananda
Andrea de Michaelis: I used to be easily infatuated. I was married five times — knowing each less than six months. All good guys, three passed and no it wasn’t the mushrooms. The others just not compatible, within 3 years we discovered that. After a dozen year stint of celibacy followed by an unwise choice, I’ve learned to patiently enjoy the unfolding and let their actions tell me who they are. In 2021 I’ve been 8 years with the current partner and no red flags, no arguments, but even so, experience has shown me to not take score so soon. There’s no hurry to be anywhere other than where we are.
“As wonderful, spiritual, passionate, charismatic, loving, sexy, charming, exciting, people oriented and evolved that “romance addicted” men can be, they will always leave a trail of broken hearts and irresponsible emotional violence in their wakes. This will not change until they get sober and heal their core issues.”….yogi armandananda
Armand writes on romance-addicted men: “I have personal experience with the male psyche and have witnessed so much pain, mainly from women getting involved with males with this unconsciousness. Hell, I used to be one. Men, more than women, seem to confuse their biological tendency towards non-monogamy with their addictive desire to experience new relationship energy.”
Andrea de Michaelis: I call them infatuation junkies. They so often don’t know it, they can be basically good men who are just unconscious relative to the chaos they cause in sexual relationships. Been there, done that, learned a lot.
Armand: Yes when I did my Love Addiction work, I met hundreds of them. They have huge hearts but typically don’t know how to handle all of that emotion. The only way that seems to help them temporarily is to dive into infatuation. Then they can release all that emotion from the pain, fear and shame that has imprisoned them. The good news is, once the heart is fully opened, all the pain, shame, anger, guilt and resentment can just flow out of the heart. Then true freedom, commitment and intimacy can occur. Infatuation is the “Crack” of Love Addictions. No need for any of it once the heart is completely open.”
Here is Armand and Angelina on Facebook