I did an email reading this week with some excellent questions and received permission to share the reading with you. For background, several family members have serious health issues that require daily attention, including the questioner, who caretakes it all, however the info is Universal.

Question: I believe in pre-birth planning and that we took this lifetime on in agreement. I’ve been happy and able to navigate the challenges while working and raising my children. This has shaken me. I question if I made decisions that made things more difficult.  We are in a tough period of our journey. I am doing what I’m able to get more help and maintain hope. I feel depleted. The cuts the administration made to our lifeline of help at a time when we need more, not less, makes it hard to face each day.

Question:  I’ve always had a belief and narrative that helped me live with challenges. I am searching for that now. It’s not coming easily. Will I regain my faith? How? I am trying to fill my mind with affirmative, loving thoughts. Fear seems to be winning. I need help to turn it around. What is the best way for me to do this when I feel scared and isolated? 

Andrea: You made the best decisions you could make at the time. Know that no matter WHAT decisions you made, they’d all bring you to the place you are now. As difficult as it was and is, even though you’re feeling depleted, you’re building strength and receiving evidence of what you’re capable of doing, which is more than you thought you were capable of. Realizing that will bring you a peace and hopefulness, that in the moment you’re always able to muster up to do what needs to be done. It will always be so for you. Resources will appear for you and in fact are already on their way to you once your vibrational stance changes a bit as you release resistance.

Resistance is simply us letting our fearful thoughts get away from us so we spend too much time focused on a problematic situation, which for you is multi layered and frankly enormous. It’s hard to keep your attention AWAY from something like that but you know how to pivot your attention to better things, happier times without mingling regret in there. That’s how you release resistance and vibe in a higher place, which in turn attracts a preferred outcome.

You do give thought time to how you may have done things differently and those thoughts do tend to spiral downward a bit before you catch yourself. The sooner you can get OFF that topic altogether and turn your attention to something fun and happy and unrelated, the quicker you will begin to feel a peace about the situation, which also means the sooner the situation begins to resolve.

Which means the help and assistance that’s on its way to you can more quickly make itself known, whether that’s by means of programs becoming available or funding becoming available or advocates appearing on the scene to help you wade thru the massive paperwork and info.

All of that aids in helping you feel at least THAT part of it’s getting under control and when that happens, you will begin to feel moments of peace and hopefulness about the situation and that peace signals that the situation is beginning to resolve.  That peace is your vibrational resonance changing, which is turn means you’ll begin to see evidence of help on the way, because help IS on the way. And your resistant thought is the only thing that slows it down.

I know it’s hard to trust that resolution is coming when so often in the past it has not, but you need to remind yourself thru your self talk that it’s on its way. Again, when it’s on the way to you yet you see no evidence of it, your self talk is what will bridge the gap from where you (vibrationally) are and where you want to be.

Opportunities are presented to you in response to your self talk. Ask for new doors to be shown to you, then ask (within/silently) in every situation and as you stand before every person, what good does this person or situation have for me? If your thoughts are wrapped up rehashing past problems, you’re not actively looking for your good.  When you look for your good, people will come into your life to help you achieve it. Situations will unfold that will delight you. Be on the lookout for WHAT GOOD DOES THIS DAY HOLD FOR ME?

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