Keep silent or tell a truth that may save unknowing friends from heartache? Is that interference with their karmic lessons? Or do friends give friends the heads up? WWYD?  We may be judging someone prematurely. It could be they have returned to the area to make amends to those they’ve harmed in the past, to wipe the slate clean, to acknowledge their past actions and make it right with everyone involved. It could be they just didn’t get around to that part yet. It’s never too late. Our current relationships are only as conscious as how we left our previous ones, all of them, professional, personal, friends, lovers, family.  And to anyone I’ve ever knowingly or unknowingly disrespected, my only excuse was acting out of ignorance and I’m sorry. Feel free to ask for a public apology.  A friend remarked, “Forgive yes, for ourselves… but still use discernment. If someone truly has changed, their heart will not let them NOT apologize and
open the channels of communication so that all involved are able to heal. You can’t pretend nothing ever happened and sweep it under a rug. Think of the 12 step program. In apologizing the person who did the wrong is set free and gets the true healing.“