I blew it! The bf left his phone in my car and I returned it without taking it out of his jacket. That was my chance to snoop and spy to my heart’s content!  But I’ve learned to never snoop because the seen cannot be unseen.  Plus I’ve always got so many things queued up in my head awaiting thought time that it’s just not a priority. I like a man who keeps some mystery about himself. I don’t need to know everything.