Facebook, Friending, Unfriending, Judging, Forgiving, Loving

Last month, Facebook friend Rosie Neal saw posts on a friend’s Wall she thought I should be aware of.  Though trying to be helpful, I felt it was deceitful to the mutual friend for her to send me her login and password info. I’d been blocked from the friend’s wall for a few weeks while we were having a disagreement.  Rosie wanted me to see his behavior for myself, encouraging me to disengage from him once and for all. It was none of my business. Even though she was trying to be helpful, a few messages later I had to be free of  her energy for awhile so I unfriended her.

Last week I wrote about more behind the scenes messages.  I do not know if she reads my blog.   I daily do the Ho’oponopono Hawaiian forgiveness/healing process on every person I feel disharmony with.  Knowing she is a friend of my friend, I began actively adding her to the daily healing prayers.  This morning I felt guided to go to her page and send her a message letting her know I had no hard feelings, and why I’d unfriended her.  I found she had me blocked. She has her own reasons. The purpose of this post is to let her know I have no hard feelings.  I had to work through my own issues of judgment.  My issues have to do with me and no one else.  I work them out within me.  I don’t vibe with schoolgirl drama. When I get messages like that, I move on to happier things with a forward focus. If you’d like back in, simply friend request me and we never have to talk about it again.  I ask your forgiveness and I forgive you. The past is the past. I have no complaints whatsoever. You have been nothing but kind to me.  I will have a friend send a message to you as well.  Here’s to everyone’s happy future.
Andrea

Afternote:  She got ticked I outed her for contacting me with login info to spy. She told my friend to cut all contact with me or she wouldn’t get him on Oprah and make him famous.  Ya gotta laugh. Don’t try to pull me into deception and then get ticked when I call you on it.  That’s not who you want to be.

Here’s what she commented on my FB wall on Friday, December 28, 2012 at 7:04pm via mobile: Rosie: “Well I am literally falling through the chair. I am so shocked to find out that Jeremy James Bonner was your Joy Boy. I thought Jeremy was a friend to you and your boyfriend and you are offering him guidance or helping him out or something like that. I thought you were all like friends. I am so shocked my mind can’t even conceive that he would have done something like this. I felt he was such a sweet young man that I was even looking for a girlfriend to hook him up with. I think any good person or woman could get sucked into something like this. Because I gotta tell you he came across squeaky clean and quite sweet. I am so sorry Andrea, that you had to go through this and I’m even more sadden and sorry that it was Jeremy that created this situation. You may not see the benefit of it today but I grant you at some point in the future you will have great appreciation that this whole thing fell apart. Sending loving blessings your way. You so deserve so much better than this.”

Note:  JoyBoy was the name I came up for Jeremy since he can bring much joy to a situation.  He liked the name and was pleased to be called that.

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