Why I seldom commit to things in advance anymore

I just missed an opportunity to car trip out of town for a few days with a pal. This is what I get for refusing to commit in advance… Oh wait, for refusing to commit in advance, I also never have to break a commitment when I don’t really wanna do something. That’s a fair trade if you ask me. I never mind when someone cancels at the last minute. I know what it’s like to change intentions, and I never want someone to be where they don’t want to be. I’ve learned a lot about human nature. Despite RSVP, I will attract those who attend and seek what I have to offer, no more, no less.