Last night I was watching the reality show Welcome To Sweetie Pie’s where Tim’s wife planned a big party under the guise of their son’s first birthday party, then berates Tim – on his busiest work day – for being late. That seems selfish to me. At least let the guy have input as to when and where If he’s gotta be there.  I wrote on Facebook: “I am judging her for trying to manipulate his time using guilt about having time with their child as an excuse. What does that say about me?”