Monthly Archives: July 2013

Prune With Patience

 You will never know how the Creator meant for you to blossom if you are not willing to dig deep into the dirt of the Earth. Till your heart’s soil with delight. Learn from the weeds of disappointment. Create a strong, healthy foundation. Plant new dream seeds with hope. Prune with patience. Celebrate every bud and honor the roots with care. Share your flowers when they bloom and blossom. Melody McGant

How to change thought and feeling place

A common theme that runs through the daily readings I do is how to get over an unwanted emotion caused by a stressful situation. The answer is always: fill your mind and your time with new thoughts and new behaviors. Do physical activity to integrate the feeling into your body  movements. Seek out fun activities with new people. By doing new and different things, you are rerouting the neural circuits in your brain to have new memories.  The old memories will fade into the past. Easier said than done, but it works if you work it.

It’s ok to have flirty fun

A friend and I were talking about personal trainers. I told him to get a female one to work him out. He said, “Ooh. That wd be hard not to flirt. I’m so good at it. Soon as I win someone over I move on. I caught her, now the next challenge.” Nice when a man recognizes his own pattern. Nice when he knows to not make empty promises and lets them know he’s just having flirty fun. A note to everyone I’m currently flirting with: I will never have sex with you.

I get a giant compliment from a friend

“Wow! Andrea, I can’t help but admire you. You are so ‘together,’ it gives hope for anyone who has doubted that close relations with another person can be fun and meaningful and something to actually desire.” LOL yes, you may perpetuate that myth for me!

Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster.  Nietzsche

JB disconnect my accounts from yours please

Jeremy, I just received an email saying: “The recovery email for your Google Account was recently changed. If you made this change, you don’t need to do anything more.  If you didn’t change your recovery email, someone may have broken into your account. Visit this link for more information: https://support.google.com/accounts/bin/answer.py?answer=2450236.”  This should never have been linked to my email, please disconnect. Let me know you’ve seen this and I’ll trash it.  Thanks.

No longer staying in to keep you comfortable

A few months ago I chose to stop attending several venues in order to give other people their space. I’ll no longer re-arrange my life to make you comfortable. I’ll not feel terrorized in my own neighborhood and my own town, no matter what is aimed at me. I’m over it and I’m not going anywhere. I’ll be going everywhere. Grow up and deal with it. Come on people now, smile on your brother, everybody get together, it’s time to love one another right now. 

Jeremy Bonner please return my items, you are forgiven

This is why you needed a new set of friends who didn’t know you. You’ve refused to return items since January despite numerous requests. I know you don’t have someone else speaking for you, that’s not who you are.  The message I sent said simply, “tell him to call K,” no details about why, so there was no need for the flareup she started. That’s why I write you here. We don’t have to speak.  Just return it.  And you could remove the post saying I got your FB page taken down and got you banned from FB since by now you know who did.  You’ve shown your character by alienating friends and family who helped you when you asked.  Now you add theft to that? Bless you and everyone whose life you affect with your deception and refusal to resolve your past. Bless everyone who vibrates in that place with you as you mature in understanding. You are forgiven. I bless every thought you have and every word out of your mouth. I return your shame, your discontent and lies with Love and truth.  May what you send out come back to you, always. 
JJB, Thank You