Forgiveness is not always easy.  At times, it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness. – Marianne Williamson

When a new man aggressively pursues you and jokingly gloats, “they call me Jonestown,” and says women he’s with go crazy on him and he leaves Armageddon in his wake… believe him. He’s just leaving out what he said and did that makes that keep happening to him. I found out. Joking about it shows he has no compassion. Forgive him for he is not awake enough to realize he keeps doing it, over and over. He’s just looking for happiness, as we all are. He can’t stand for a moment to be alone with his thoughts, so he’s always moving from one thing to the next. His error lies in acting vulnerable and knowingly saying sensitive, seductive words and making empty promises to draw in new toys for his delight. His error lies in saying “I love you” from day one, calling you his queen and constantly repeating, “I know you think I’m playing you,” when it was not in your mind to begin with. Bless him for admitting once that he just needed something to conquer. Forgive him, bless him. There, but for the grace of God, go I.
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Why I attract karmic backlash in relationships

Domino is tripping because her ex is using the same flowery, seductive, mystical lines and phrases he used on her to woo someone else publicly online.  I told her to stay off his FB wall and it won’t bother her.  When someone finds a line that works, ya can’t blame them for recycling it.  Get over it, move on. Let the new one learn their own hard lesson. No matter how hard you try, you  can’t do it for them.  I suggested she ask him respectfully to block her from his wall to take it out of her hands.  She did. Rejection is protection.

Someone you meet today is growing, it might be more helpful to recognize the improvement instead of pointing out the need for it. Newton Boyd

Never for a moment be with someone you no longer want to be with.  But never for a moment use sharp words to mock them or belittle them to create distance.  There’s never an excuse to be purposely hurtful, to anyone, ever.  Also, never think that anyone you are talking to is not telling others (their version of ) what you said, whether anyone wants to hear it or not.  Friends don’t do that and, if they do, they are not your friends.

Last night I watched Ghosts of Girlfriends Past with Matthew McConaughey and Jennifer Warren, very funny!  “Matthew is playboy Connor Mead, who, after delivering a drunken speech at his brother’s rehearsal wedding dinner, is met in the bathroom by the ghost of his uncle Wayne (Michael Douglas), a Hefner-esque horndog who taught Connor everything he knows about picking up chicks. Uncle Wayne informs Connor that, over the course of the evening, he’ll be visited by three ghosts who will lead him through his romantic past, present, and future.“In one scene, his brother speaks to Connor’s exes, who are all bridesmaids, and who are all hatin’ on Connor for dumping them. He says Connor never had a chance to be a child, he had to raise himself and his brother from an early age due to no parental guidance. He failed to develop emotional maturity, through no fault of his own – it was all survive, survive.  I love how the Universe sends profound messages thru things like silly movies, giving enormous insight into understanding the other side of a real life situation. Wow. Wow. My heart is open in a new way to an old friend.  Wow.

 First there must be a welcome, it could be in prayer, in spiritually directed questions or a concern that you use to turn your attention to Spirit. Whatever you know spirit as, focus on that in your mind, and simply practice allowing everything else be silenced and simply pass, while you simply remain focused on Spirit. Second, open up the question, and be ready to write or record what comes to you. At first there is a lot of asking and almost begging and declaring your commitment and desire to hear. The third part also need much practice and that is writing and/talking till you also are impressed with the depth of where you are going. I honestly feel that Spirit is teaching us to “channel” her in every area of our lives until you Know You as Spirit. Intern focusing every area of your life to what is truth and dissolving the beliefs of our false reality. OR making a fake reality, up to you.

Here this is good:
1. Ask
2. Focus & Surrender
3. Write/record, with the intent of publishing.
Devan J. Byrne

I posted on Facebook, “Nice when the gentleman says, allow me to order for us. Tres galant. I could get used to this…”  My pal Miro Posavec commented, “Like the jurassic park movies.. It always starts out as “oooo… aaaaa..”, then there’s screaming and running.”