Juggling too many at once
The theme this week in readings seems to be both men and women who resent that their lover or partner wants to keep them a secret from friends, from family and on Facebook. I read for about a thousand people a year. I hear everyone’s stories. I see the patterns. If they want to keep you a secret, that is because they are juggling you with someone else or a few, and none of you know about the others. I know it because hundreds tell me they do it. What they don’t count on is the underground network of Facebook and real life friends who also contact each other behind the scenes and discover they’re all being lied to for different benefits. 2013 is the year for no more secrets, no more lies. When you stop putting up with it, you will stop attracting it.