On a Facebook thread, someone wrote that she hoped someone got what they deserved.  I replied, “I believe we all get what we deserve, by our choice of where we focus our attention. If I focus on someone being a lazy bum, that’s what I’ll see. If I focus on someone taking time out to incubate a dream and get a life plan together, that’s what I’ll see and how I’ll react to them.  How I act with them determines how they react to me and how they see themselves.  We can activate either side of their personality by our attention to one aspect or another.”  What are you activating?