To any third parties trying to mediate, don’t

Bless you, but you’re just causing damage with your misunderstood intervention.  If there’s anything to be resolved, it would be between the two parties.  They can email each other directly when either wants contact.  Thanks for your concern, helpful person. And to anyone who has any questions for me personally, between you and I, feel free to email me a list of your concerns and I will be happy to address them.  I welcome input; it helps me consider course correction.  Everyone is my teacher.