When my mom passed in 1996, I thought I should ask her friend who her doctor was so I could see what all she had (she took a bunch of rx). Then I thought, why would I do that? To know what to expect so I could attract it sooner? I’m blissfully ignorant. We had different lifestyles, I was never a cig smoker or alcohol drinker or fried chicken, french fry and dessert lover. My experience doesn’t have to be what hers was.