Lies can unravel our soul, strand by strand.  IF we allow them to.  IF we keep bringing them to mind.  IF we continue to reach into the past and drag them kicking and screaming into our Now and into our future.  I personally am a fan of the Ho’oponopono Hawaiian forgiveness/healing process as a daily practice.    I’m also a fan of not rehashing old issues.  Talk about it once, get it out and over with, and then never again bring up old sh*t unless you want to start new sh*t.