A friend talked about being disappointed, she’d dated a wild guy because she’d heard the crazy ones were good in bed. Now she feels ripped off that she got the crazy part without getting the good in bed part. She said, “Give me a steady mule over a bucking bronco anytime.”  My experience is the quiet unassuming ones can be freaks in the sheets. I like a slow controlled burn that doesn’t leave anything in flames but my heart.